INFJs ranked as having low dominance according to the CPI™ tool. Since the traits linked with low-dominance were being quiet, cautious, or hesitant to take action, this makes sense. INFJs tend to be on the quiet side, and they also tend to be extremely independent.
INFJs may undervalue their own needs, ideas, and contributions, acting overly shy and not taking credit when due. At their worst, INFJs can be excessively submissive, ineffectual, and too dependent on direction from others.
Submissives are concerned with facts rather than emotion, and won't spend time getting to know you on a personal level. In conversation, submissives are serious, direct, and formal and often like to be dealt with at arm's length.
People with an INFJ personality type are dominant in introverted intuition. This means: INFJs tend to be highly focused on their internal insights. Once they have formed an intuition about something, INFJs tend to stick to it very tightly, often to the point of being single-minded in their focus.
In their social dominance, they will happily lead others and take charge when given the opportunity, but they can step back and follow if needed. Of course, there will be individual INFPs who are relatively high or low on some of these dimensions, leading to some particular interpersonal challenges.
ESTJs ranked as highly dominant according to the CPI™ tool. These decisive, direct individuals are usually skilled at taking the lead and getting a job done.
ESTP and ESTJ
Other types that can be more “Alpha“: ESFP with stronger Se. ENTJ (Te subtype) ISTP (Se subtype)
A healthy INFJ. We already have all the alpha qualities, but it's in our nature to be a kind of beta, or “secondary alpha” to accommodate people. INFJs know how to lead. It's a rare skill, and even for those that have it you need to develop it, but we are born with it.
INFJ: Open-mindedness
INFJs seek someone who is open-minded and willing to explore different ways of looking at the world. That's what really turns them on.
INFJs are no exception to this rule, and when they become overly stressed they may display a dark side that includes angry outbursts, obsessive worrying, perfectionism, or even depression. When INFJs first encounter stress, they start to behave very true-to-type.
Previous findings suggest that women are more likely than men to take on the submissive role during sexual activities (e.g., waiting for their partner to initiate and orchestrate sexual activities), often to the detriment of their sexual satisfaction.
ISFJ would probably be the most common submissive type, especially considering that it is the most common type in general. In my experience, INFJ is probably the 2nd most common. Then ESFJ, and lastly, ENFJ. These traits are especially pronounced depending on the way the person grew up.
So, which personality types are best in bed? ESFPs and ESTPs are typically seen as the most passionate and pleasurable partners. They both appreciate the physical connection and can read subtle cues that help them please their partner.
In love, INFJs are unlikely to seek out a casual fling, or a quick romantic connection. INFJs are often interested in finding true love, and typically take a deep and soulful approach to life. For that reason, love and relationships are not taken lightly by INFJs.
However, time and time again, INFJs have told me that they get uncomfortably awkward around their crushes. They giggle more, trip over things more, and make self-deprecating jokes to try to ease the tension.
Any time I read an article about INFJs and relationships, it seems to repeat the same advice: our “ideal” match is the ENTP personality type.
For example, an INFJ may be turned off by someone who is superficial and focused on material things. INFJs are all about connecting with others and they care deeply about meaningful, authentic relationships. Consequently, someone who is too concerned with money or material objects may be a big turn-off for them.
INFJs enjoy deep conversations with intellectually curious individuals. They enjoy talking about philosophy, psychology, religion, and a lot of the “taboo” subjects that many other people avoid. They enjoy asking questions, looking for answers and understanding how other people see the world.
INFPs have Fi as their dominant function and they're also the most common mistype for INFJs. If both Sign 1 and Sign 5 are true for you, then INFP is probably a better fit for you than INFJ.
Again, opposite to the INFJ is the INFP, who will appear less organized and less controlled than the INFJ to others. Still, since their primary function is a Judging function, Introverted Feeling, there's a lot of internal organization others don't see outside the INFP's head.
and happy the main trait sigma infj females have is their independence. as they are the last to rely on other people for their emotional and financial needs they'd rather do what they want and pursue whatever they desire. it means they are truly eager to excel in their jobs.
Enter the Confident Individualists: the “lone wolves” of the personality type spectrum. Much like a lone wolf in the wild, Confident Individualists are born of a social species, yet are much more self-sufficient than most of their kind.
Sensing (S) – Intuition (N)
Of all the Myers-Briggs dichotomies, Sensing and Intuition appear to be the least related to masculinity and femininity.
The ENTJ personality type, also known as “The Commander,” is characterized as a natural leader. These high-achiever individuals are typically described as logical, confident, expressive, assertive and goal-orientated.