They Are Trying to Communicate
As early as three months, babies learn to recognize their parents or primary caregivers. And there staring is their way to communicate. Babies can't quite interact yet for the first few months, so their staring is their way of communicating with you.
Babies Are Attracted To Beauty
Because beautiful faces are easier for the brain to perceive. Researchers studying infants find that babies gaze at more symmetrical faces longer, and learn to recognize them faster.
learned. Alan Slater and his colleagues at the University of Exeter showed paired images of faces to babies as young a one day old and found that they spent more time fixated on the more attractive face. “Attractiveness is not in the eye of the beholder, it's innate to a newborn infant,” says Slater.
Babies are drawn to attractive people
A baby may be staring at you because they think you're beautiful. We're not kidding! A decades-old experiment found that newborns and young infants spent more time staring at faces that adults deemed attractive.
Human infants, just a few days of age, are known to prefer attractive human faces. We examined whether this preference is human-specific. Three- to 4-month-olds preferred attractive over unattractive domestic and wild cat (tiger) faces (Experiments 1 and 3).
Igor explained: "We see from the results that children and especially girls have more trust in attractive faces, even though there are no obvious reasons why people with more attractive faces would be more knowledgeable about object labels.
Your baby making eye contact with you is vital in early attachment and bonding. The special relationship you're forming with your baby increases their sense of security and allows their brain to grow and develop on track.
Blame it on curiosity
Like children and adults, babies are generally curious beings and tend to stare as they get to know you. They are also naturally drawn to faces and might be attracted to interesting features like glasses or a bushy beard.
And research suggests that babies evaluate people in much the same way, preferring people who like the same foods, clothes, and toys that they like. This preference helps us to form social bonds, but it can also have a dark side.
Most likely there is something about you that interests them. It's not usually a bad thing about yourself, it's just something that's caught their attention. For example, many little kids stare at me because of my dimples.
Somewhere around 2 months of age, baby will look at you and flash a full-on smile that's guaranteed to make your heart swell. Doctors call that kind of smile a “social smile” and describe it as one that's “either a reaction, or trying to elicit a reaction,” Stavinoha says. In other words, baby is interacting with you!
A baby's vision develops slowly over their first six to eight months, notes Gritchen, which is one of the reasons why high contrast objects and moving objects like ceiling fans are more likely to attract the baby's attention.
Newborns arrive after spending months floating in amniotic fluid, covered in the waxy white substance known as vernix caseosa. Some theorize that these fluids and substances play a part in that new baby smell. This might be part of the reason that special newborn scent is fleeting, lasting only a few weeks.
They gaze into your face
“The baby is sending signals that they want to attach, they want comfort, and they want an emotional response back,” she says. When you do reciprocate and gaze back with affection, this builds a loving connection between you and your baby.
Babies usually start looking you in the eye when they are about six to eight weeks old. Your face is going to be what they look at most, so if your baby doesn't make eye contact by their two month well visit, be sure to mention it to your pediatrician so they can take another look.
Eat fresh fruits
If you want to give birth to a beautiful baby, plan your meals to include nourishing food. Fruits like mangoes, papaya, oranges, bananas, and African cherries should be in your diet. There are many other seasonal fruits, and you'll do well to eat them if you want beautiful babies.
What does it mean when children gravitate to you? Its a good thing, it means that they trust you, and that you are someone they can connect with.
It appears that natural selection does help individual genes to spread, by subtly biasing the offspring sex ratio so that beautiful people, who can benefit from having a daughter, do indeed have slightly more daughters than ugly people, who cannot so benefit.
A subsequent body of research, building over the years in the journal Evolution & Human Behavior, has delivered results in conflict with the 1995 paper, indicating that young children resemble both parents equally. Some studies have even found that newborns tend to resemble their mothers more than their fathers.
Children are naturally curious and they are also drawn to people who feel 'good' to them or who are different and intriguing. They are sensitive and pick up on people's energy. How lovely that you are giving off a vibe that makes them feel safe enough to want to investigate more.
According to researchers at Yale University's Infant Cognition Center, also known as “The Baby Lab,” babies can actually tell good from evil, even as young as 3 months old.
When I'm pulling my lips into a little 'O' shape and widening my eyes, it's playtime. This look, wide open eyes and round little mouth, is a common one for excited babies who want to play with their parents. They might also clap, wave their hands, or even make a sound or two.
It happens as your baby develops a healthy attachment to familiar people – like you. Because babies prefer familiar adults, they might react to strangers by crying or fussing, going very quiet, looking fearful or hiding.
He'll find ways to reach out and entice you and others to play, even though he may be stuck in his infant seat. He'll relish in having face time with you, staring sweetly into your eyes as he chats you up with his babbles and squeals.