Can Amish be friends with non-Amish?

There's no rule against friendships between Amish and non-Amish people. The Amish love meeting other people and conversing about life. But always respect their devout laws and views on modern living, which will almost certainly differ from yours. You don't have to have the same beliefs to befriend an Amish person.

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Can I be friends with an Amish person?

The Amish are quiet and like to be left alone: they don't really mind what you do on your land. You can have a symbiotic relationship with the Amish that suits both of you. First off you need to respect the way they live and understand a few things. The Amish really don't like compliments.

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What do the Amish call non-Amish people?

Amish church groups seek to maintain a degree of separation from the non-Amish world. Non-Amish people are generally referred to as "English" by the Amish, and outside influences are often described as "worldly". Amish church membership begins with adult baptism, usually between the ages of 16 and 23.

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Do Amish use condoms?

All types of birth control, and also all forms of natural family planning such as calendar-based methods, are forbidden in Old-Order Amish communities. However, especially in recent years, more Amish women have begun using contraception.

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Can Amish accept gifts from English?

Remember, the Amish community cherishes the practice of gift-giving as a means of strengthening relationships, expressing gratitude, and celebrating life's special moments. While they may refer to outsiders as "English," they are more than willing to accept gifts from those outside their community.

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Can you be friends with the Amish? (Separation from the world)

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How can I be respectful to Amish?

Do not enter private property without permission. Do not feed or pet horses that are tied to a hitching rail or harnessed to a buggy. Out of respect for their privacy, it is best to avoid approaching the Amish unless they appear open to company.

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What is an appropriate gift for an Amish person?

Many Amish men are accomplished carpenters and use traditional woodworking tools to create gifts for the home. They make wooden furniture and household items for use in the community. These items also serve as housewarming gifts. Wooden toys and smaller items for the home are popular Christmas gifts for their families.

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Can Amish girls shave?

Do Amish shave their legs and armpits? The Ordnung (set of community rules) forbids women from shaving. What's more, because the Amish interpretation of the New Testament considers cutting hair a shameful act (1 Corinthians 11:5-15), women don't cut or shave any hair on their bodies.

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Can Amish people cuddle?

The Amish also believe marriage should be between a man and a woman. Same-sex relationships are not allowed within the Amish community. Unmarried Amish men and women aren't supposed to have any physical contact with each other. This includes kissing, hugging, and even holding hands.

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What are the taboos of the Amish?

As part of their Ordnung, Old Order Amish forbid owning automobiles; tapping electricity from public utility lines; owning televisions, radios, or personal computers; attending high school or college; joining the military; and initiating divorce. All Amish groups expect men and women to wear prescribed clothing.

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Are Amish shunned if they leave?

Even though leaving the Amish community is technically not allowed, it does happen. The Amish's freedom of choice allows members to leave at any time. People who leave after joining the church are excommunicated and shunned, while those who leave before joining the church aren't.

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Do Amish celebrate Christmas?

Yes. The Amish in Lancaster, Pennsylvania celebrate Christmas. As you might expect though, Amish Christmas celebrations are done in a much simpler way. You won't find Amish families visiting Santa Claus, decorating their homes with Christmas lights, or putting an elf on their shelf.

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Do the Amish have more than one wife?

Not only do the Amish not actively practice polygamy, they certainly don't believe in it. They view polygamy as adultery. Although the various Amish settlements may interpret certain rules slightly differently, there is no deviation from this law. The Amish believe in traditional marriage between one man and one woman.

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What age can Amish date?

Dating among the Amish typically begins around age 16 with most Amish couples marrying between the ages of 20 and 22. To find a prospective date, the young adults socialize at functions such as frolics, church, or home visits. One of the most popular activities is the Sunday night singing.

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What kind of alcohol do Amish drink?

Those Amish who don't drink alcohol may abstain for religious or personal reasons. That said, even those communities that do allow it generally stick to wine or beer rather than hard liquor. When they do consume alcohol, they usually enjoy it in moderation rather than drink to get drunk.

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Can Amish listen to music?

Keep in mind, the Amish don't have radios or television. They're allowed to listen to live music though, and many Amish attend outdoor music concerts in the countryside. You may even have seen some of them at an outdoor country music concert, enjoying picnic lunches from one of their distinctive Amish Baskets.

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Do Amish love their kids?

Amish parents consider their children their greatest earthly treasure. Children are welcomed as a blessing from God and large families are the norm.

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Do Amish kiss their children?

Mothers are very demonstrative with their babies when they nurse them and sing to them as they soothe them to sleep. But they don't pick up their children to hug and kiss them.

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Do the Amish let outsiders in?

Q: May outsiders join the Amish? A: Yes. Although the Amish do not actively evangelize, several dozen outside people have joined the Amish. Potential members must be willing to learn the dialect and accept the rules of the church in order to be baptized and become members of the church.

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Do Amish believe in birth control?

Amish men outlive Amish women, in part because of the high birth rate (average of 7 live births/woman). Birth control and abortion are forbidden by religious doctrine, even when pregnancy is life threatening.

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Why do Amish girls cover their hair?

However, in addition to the modesty aspect, women must keep their heads covered at all times so that they can pray at any time. Both modesty and prayer are central to the daily lives of Amish people and for women, wearing head coverings and bonnets is an important part of that.

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Why do Amish remove girl teeth?

According to Amish America, the primary reason why many Amish have their teeth removed and replaced by dentures early on in adulthood is because of the long-term cost of visiting the dentist. These visits would occur because, as a whole, Amish may have more risks relating to their dental health.

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What are Amish customs in the bedroom?

The Amish bedroom rules contain what is known as bundling. This is the practice of sleeping in the same bed with someone of the opposite sex while fully clothed.

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What do the Amish do with their elderly?

The Amish do not have retirement homes. The elderly normally live in an apartment in the home of one of their children or in a Grossdawdy Haus, a small adjacent house. Esteemed for their wisdom, the elderly find meaning and dignity as they assist their adult children.

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What do Amish people do for money?

Amish farming is done on large acres of land and is thus a big part of their income. They make money from selling dairy products, cereals, livestock, and eggs. Some sell their goods at farmers' markets or roadside stands, while others sell directly to consumers who visit their farms.

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