Some children are comfortable identifying as a gender that's different from their assumed gender. And being gender diverse or experimenting with gender expression isn't a problem unless your child seems upset or distressed about their gender. But some children do experience gender dysphoria.
A diagnosis of gender dysphoria in childhood is rare. Most children who seem confused about their gender identity when young will not continue to feel the same way beyond puberty. Role playing is not unusual in young children.
Gender dysphoria symptoms
The word "dysphoria" means significant uneasiness and dissatisfaction, and gender dysphoria can start to present as early as childhood in some people. Other symptoms include: distress.
For some, gender dysphoria can develop early in childhood. One study showed that, on average, study participants reported their earliest memory of gender dysphoria between the ages of 4 and 6 years old. By the age of 7, most study participants could remember experiencing some feelings of gender dysphoria.
Rapid-onset gender dysphoria is described as a seemingly sudden appearance of gender identity issues that first become evident during puberty or shortly thereafter. It is not a recognized diagnosis but a controversial research theory.
Additionally, while some transgender adolescents have shown gender non-conformity since early childhood, other adolescents might experience gender dysphoria during or after the onset of pubertal physical changes. Some adolescents may have kept their gender incongruence to themselves for a long time.
I recommend that you start with a talk where you respectfully and lovingly let your daughter know how you feel about her gender identity and what your concerns are for her. You can also let her know what you are comfortable doing in support of her and what you are not.
No one knows exactly what causes gender dysphoria. Some experts believe that hormones in the womb, genes, and cultural and environmental factors may be involved.
The study findings revealed that 73% of the transgender women and 78% of the transgender men first experienced gender dysphoria by age 7.
Transgender and gender-diverse people might experience gender dysphoria at some point in their lives. However, some transgender and gender-diverse people feel at ease with their bodies, with or without medical intervention.
A young child's exploration of different gender identities is quite common. However, for some children this may continue into later childhood and adolescence. Some people see gender as existing on a spectrum. This includes male, female and a diversity of gender identities such as non-binary and agender (no gender).
Gender dysphoria is a term that describes a sense of unease that a person may have because of a mismatch between their biological sex and their gender identity. This sense of unease or dissatisfaction may be so intense it can lead to depression and anxiety and have a harmful impact on daily life.
Children dressing up as the opposite gender is very common (almost as common, in fact, as parents who are worried about this behavior.) But rest assured, it is perfectly normal. Dressing up and playing pretend is the activity of choice for children of this age.
You are not alone. Most people identify strongly with the gender they're expected to grow up as. But it's not uncommon for a person to identify strongly with the other gender. Sometimes the desire lasts only a brief time.
Some kids may start expressing interest in having a boyfriend or girlfriend as early as age 10 while others are 12 or 13 before they show any interest. The key is for parents to remember that the tween years are a time of transition.
For many children, this is part of normal exploration of gender identity. No one can tell you whether your child's gender identity or expression will change over time. What children need to know most is that you will love and accept them as they figure out their place in the world.
These behaviors do not necessarily mean your child is transgender. They simply suggest your child is getting to know the world around him and exploring what he or she likes to do. Behaviors that suggest gender curiosity rather than transgenderism include: Wearing clothes of the opposite sex.
About 40% of parents, across the decades, have told researchers that if they could only have one child, they would want a boy. Only a consistent 20% to 30% has chosen a girl or no preference. At least when it comes to what we think we want, the data is clear.
If a child asks you about someone's gender, don't assume or pretend you know. Use thoughtful and gender-neutral language, such as "they" and "them" pronouns, to let your child know that until a person self identifies, you can't be sure.
A gender dysphoria test is a set of psychological questions to determine whether you have gender dysphoria. The gender therapist will talk to you about your symptoms, how long they've been going on for if there are any related complications such as depression or anxiety, and other possible causes for these feelings.
There was growing evidence that the autistic population has a higher risk of GD. However, certain studies seek to disprove this hypothesis. There is also growing evidence that childhood abuse, neglect, maltreatment, and physical or sexual abuse may be associated with GD.
Heredity and Gender Dysphoria
Most of the studies investigating gender dysphoria have been conducted on twins, and less so from family studies. In a study of GD involving 1891 twins, an inheritance pattern of 0.50–0.57 in men and 0.30–0.37 in women was reported.