Do INFJs hide their feelings?

INFJs will not reveal their feelings to someone they love or admire until they are absolutely sure that the person feels the same way.

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Are INFJs aware of their feelings?

The auxiliary function for an INFJ is extraverted feeling. This means: INFJs are highly aware of what other people are feeling but are sometimes less aware of their own emotions. INFJs sometimes struggle to say no to other people's requests.

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How do INFJs act when they like someone?

INFJs tend to be guarded about their physical space, except for when it comes to family and VERY close friends. If they're finding excuses to touch your hand, bump up against you, or hug you, then it probably means they have feelings for you.

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Do INFJs know when they like someone?

Yes, we INFJs usually know when someone likes us. But we're often in denial about it. INFJs tend to be really good at reading people and their emotions. This means we're usually very aware when someone likes someone else.

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Why are INFJ so secretive?

INFJs are secretive

But because INFJs in particular tend to be creative and use their intuition a lot, they are usually even more secretive. They are fully aware that if they were to share all their ideas with the world, people would not (and could not) understand them.

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Why INFJs Hide Their True Selves from the World

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What makes INFJ insecure?

INFJs feel insecure when they receive criticism or are faced with conflict or confrontation. They want to live in a harmonious atmosphere as much as possible, and they tend to take criticism very personally as children.

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What turns INFJs off?

For example, an INFJ may be turned off by someone who is superficial and focused on material things. INFJs are all about connecting with others and they care deeply about meaningful, authentic relationships. Consequently, someone who is too concerned with money or material objects may be a big turn-off for them.

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Does an INFJ make a move when they fall in love?

INFJs are a fierce personality type defined by their idealism, achievement, perfectionism, and sensitivity. These introverts are hopeless romantics who tend to fall in love easily, but they also struggle to make the first move, flirt and show love once they're in a relationship.

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Are INFJs loyal to their crush?

Loyalty. Loyalty is not only a quality that INFJs are attracted to, but also something they expect to find in a future partner. Once again, it all comes down to trust.

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How do you tell if an INFJ likes you romantically?

13 Signs That An INFJ Likes You
  1. They will make an effort to spend time with you.
  2. They will choose to stay close to you.
  3. They will show facial expressions.
  4. They show frequent physical affection.
  5. They will open up to you.
  6. They buy you gifts.
  7. They send you songs or memes that remind them of you.

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How do INFJs get jealous?

Because of our passionate need for meaningful connection, we INFJs can get jealous easily when we see other people connecting and having fun. We might compare ourselves to them, or worse yet, when someone close to us has friends of their own, we might pull away, feeling unwanted and pathetic.

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What do INFJ look for in a partner?

INFJs are likely to thrive in relationships where their partner is putting in an equal amount of effort. They tend to look for partners who are motivated, trustworthy, and encouraging. They want to feel fully loved and accepted as they are in a relationship and are unlikely to give up on their partner.

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When an INFJ goes silent?

INFJs are sensitive souls who are easily overwhelmed, but they have their limits. If they feel stressed by their environment, or the people in it, they'll tend to cry or become very quiet and want to be alone. Some INFJs will be cold, sarcastic and very blunt or speak to someone only on a very superficial level.

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Does INFJ like physical touch?

Physical Touch is something many INFJs are cautious about. You'll rarely find INFJs engaging in casual touch with just anyone. Touch (even something as simple as a hug or a pat on the shoulder) is usually something we only enjoy from people we trust and are very close to.

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Is it hard for INFJs to express their feelings?

INFJs feel deeply, and that's likely the understatement of the year — but they often struggle to express those feelings. The introvert's way of interacting with the world is to quietly explore it, and the same goes for our internal world.

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Who are most attracted to INFJ?

INTP (“The Logician”)

In the world of personality theory, the INTP and INFJ pairing has been nicknamed “The Golden Pair” because these two types can be highly compatible.

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Do INFJs have a hard time dating?

INFJs have unique needs and expectations when it comes to romantic relationships and you may struggle to find someone who matches you intellectually and emotionally.

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What is the best love interest for INFJ?

Although two well-developed individuals of any type can enjoy a healthy relationship, INFJ's natural partner is the ENTP, or the ENFP. INFJ's dominant function of Introverted Intuition is best matched with a personality type that is dominated by Extraverted Intuition.

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How does INFJ react to heartbreak?

A heartbroken INFJ might think they should never have trusted this person in the first place and eat themselves up with guilt. They might get angry and defensive, scared of ever letting another person in. It's okay to feel those things, but it's not healthy to stay there long-term.

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Who is the soulmate of an INFJ?

ENFP. If you have an ENFP as a friend, you'll know how fun and inclusive these types can be. ENFPs may be an INFJ's best match due to the similarities and complementary traits these types share.

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Why is being in a relationship with an INFJ so difficult?

It can be difficult to let someone else in, even if they want to get close to them. INFJs hold their wounds close to their heart. The things that they've overcome that have made them who they are today can be difficult to reveal, even to the people they love and care for the most.

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What is an INFJ biggest turn on?

INFJs seek someone who is open-minded and willing to explore different ways of looking at the world. That's what really turns them on. INFJs want to be able to express their thoughts and feelings freely without being judged, but also have a partner who is willing to listen to them and consider different perspectives.

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What happens when an INFJ goes dark?

From muscle tension to increased blood pressure, stress can wreak havoc on our physical as well as mental health. INFJs are no exception to this rule, and when they become overly stressed they may display a dark side that includes angry outbursts, obsessive worrying, perfectionism, or even depression.

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Do INFJs get burnt out?

INFJs aren't the only personality type to experience burnout at work — but it's certainly a very common experience for us, given our nature.

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What is intimidating about INFJ?

Because they are often reserved, high-achieving individuals with high expectations of both themselves and others, INFJs can be intimidating to other personality types. Since INFJs are also the rarest personality type, many people misunderstand them.

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