Introverts absolutely hate phone calls. In fact, many introverts will actively avoid making phone calls. When they receive phone calls, they're more likely to let the call go to voicemail than to answer. While it might be easier for some people to blame anxiety, even non-anxious introverts dislike phone calls.
Honestly, introverts may not be the best phone buddies. Generally speaking, we have a tendency to take our time thinking things through before we respond. (That's also why we're such good listeners; you're welcome.) Those long, awkward pauses between thought and spoken word don't translate well over the phone.
Introverts savour conversations. They like gaps between sentences so they can experience the aftertaste so to speak. You will often 'see' them thinking during those pauses. It will be worth the wait because they will then contribute to the conversation with value.
I understand why a lot of introverts love texting. After all, it's a form of communication based on writing, and for a lot of introverts, it's easier to convey their thoughts through writing than speaking. I'm like that, too: I feel like I can express myself better through writing than speaking.
Although there are times when introverts enjoy the rush of physical affection, other times, when they are drained or tired, touch can feel invasive and overstimulating. On the other hand, extroverts gain energy when they are close to others, so physical contact with their partner is a pick-me-up.
They avoid eye contact or don't maintain it for long.
Not all introverts are shy or have social anxiety, but some do. Introverts who truly feel uncomfortable in crowds often have a hard time maintaining eye contact. Plus, they don't want to encourage others to talk to them.
Introverts absolutely hate phone calls. In fact, many introverts will actively avoid making phone calls. When they receive phone calls, they're more likely to let the call go to voicemail than to answer. While it might be easier for some people to blame anxiety, even non-anxious introverts dislike phone calls.
Are introverts clingy? Introversion isn't a sign of clinginess either way, explains Aaron. An introverted person can be clingy or prefer distance, same as any non-introverted person.
Introverts: Those with a preference for introversion tend to think they're communicating more than they are. The quality of their communications is sound, but the quantity is lower than needed. When introverts communicate, it's typically effective, but they usually don't communicate often enough.
Sometimes an Introvert needs time to open up, even if they're upset about something unrelated to you. If an Introvert is ignoring you (and everyone else) because there's a stressful event happening in their life, the best thing you can do is give them space.
Ask questions that are structured and even include examples in the question. Introverts often go blank when asked questions. Offering structure around the question can help them think of something to reply to. Pro Tip: Introverts are often thinkers, so give them a minute to respond.
Introverts tend to be thinkers; they often need quiet spaces to contemplate and to crank out work. While extroverts think out loud, they often talk through something before they pen it. This means that introverts could struggle in an open environment if they are not given that flexibility.
Introverts tend to be quiet and subdued. They dislike being the center of attention, even if the attention is positive. It's not surprising that introverts don't brag about their achievements or knowledge. In fact, they may know more than they'll admit.
As an introvert, you might get exhausted being in loud, overly stimulating environments where you have to socialize a lot. The key is to pay attention to your energy, make choices that respect your preferences (whenever possible) and replenish your energy.
74% of introverts “don't like” (or they use stronger words) small talk. Interestingly 23% of extroverts don't like small talk, so small talk isn't just an introvert thing – but it mainly is. If you've ever wondered why introverts hate small talk, read on.
Unlike shy people, Introverts are not necessarily bound by fear. If Introverts choose not to speak, it's because they prefer not to rather than because they are afraid. The other side of that coin is that there is nothing basic to their makeup that stops Introverts from talking as much as they like.
Whether it's making small talk to the point of feeling drained or just having a busy day at work, life can be exhausting for both introverts and highly sensitive people. It's not unusual for them to feel quite tired and mentally fatigued at the end of the day, and they may even need more sleep than others.
And indeed, anxiety is more common among introverts than extroverts, according to Laurie Helgoe. Sometimes anxiety is obvious (think: panic attacks and sweaty palms), but that's not always the case. Many people live with a form called “high-functioning anxiety.” Outwardly, they appear to have it all together.
Even though introverted people tend to prefer time alone, they can also experience feelings of loneliness.
One of the most prevalent myths out there about introverts is that they are shy, insecure, and have low self-esteem. It's an unfair assumption based on our outward mannerisms, personality, and our desire to be in smaller groups or alone. But the reality is that introverts can be shy, just as extroverts can be shy.
Introverts may hide their inner feelings or excitement, but that doesn't mean they can't express themselves creatively.
Some introverts thrive on social media. They have a platform for sharing their thoughts and feelings, but are able to control the interaction. They can think carefully about what they want to say, and don't feel put on the spot. Other introverts find social media exhausting and hard to keep up with.
But when an introvert is interested in you, they will set aside their distaste for small talk. They'll ask you about everyday things and will then show interest in these subjects and ask even more questions. Why is that? Because they want to know more about you.
Researchers have found that introverts tend to be more easily distracted than extroverts,5 which is part of the reason why introverts tend to prefer a quieter, less harried setting. If you tend to feel overwhelmed in busy social situations, you may be an introvert.