Do narcissists keep you blocked forever?

For the narcissist, their narcissistic supply is always being used up and they are on a constant search for how to refill it. Blocking you no longer serves its purpose, so they unblock you. They may tell you they have unblocked you, or they may not.

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Do narcissists always come back after blocking you?

Yes, they often do come back to relationships. A narcissist will repeat their cycle of abuse as long as they need you as a supply. Even their distressing discard performance will leave you in a firm belief they're done with you; a narcissist will come back.

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Do narcissists ever discard people permanently?

Though typical narcissists do not discard people because they crave attention, covert narcissists may go to extreme measures to permanently discard you.

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What does it mean when a narcissist blocks you and keeps you blocked?

When a narcissist uses protective blocking they are trying to protect themselves from experiencing a narcissistic injury (ego injury). They want to block you before you can say something that contradicts their grandiose self-perception and triggers all of their suppressed negative emotions.

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How long does it take for a narcissist to unblock you?

There is no definite time limit. Narcissists can unblock you within hours or days or weeks or months or even years. In some cases a narcissist may never unblock you.

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Why Narcissists BLOCK YOU! (And What You Do!) [RAW]

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Will a narcissist eventually unblock me?

The narcissist has likely unblocked you because they aren't getting their narcissistic supply filled somewhere else, or the blocking of you is no longer filling their narcissistic supply. For the narcissist, their narcissistic supply is always being used up and they are on a constant search for how to refill it.

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How does a narcissist feel after blocking you?

Most narcissists will view being blocked as an act of aggression. A blocked narcissist won't have any ability to silence or control you, which is very important for them. This is highly likely to be an overwhelming and scary feeling for them.

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How do you know a narcissist is done with you?

30 Signs that a narcissist is finished with you
  • The narcissist no longer hides their true colors. ...
  • You feel the change. ...
  • The narcissist will no longer give you love bombs. ...
  • They are constantly irritated with you. ...
  • The narcissist ignores everything you say. ...
  • They criticize you. ...
  • They are always distant. ...
  • A narcissist will gaslight you.

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What hurts a narcissist more being blocked or ignored?

It hurts to be ignored. And, that's one of the reasons why a narcissist ignores you. And, it can be especially difficult for people who have attachment or self-esteem issues. Sadly, a narcissist knows this and seeks out people who are most vulnerable to being controlled by their tactics.

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How long can a narcissist go with no contact before they reach back out to you?

In most cases, the narcissist will come back at you immediately after you put in place the no contact rule. Considering how important their ego is to them and how they need that constant attention from their partner, they would come for you immediately.

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Do narcissists stop thinking about you after the discard?

Does the Narcissist Think About You After Discard? Narcissists may still think about you after they have discarded you but probably not in a good way. They may tell people how “crazy” or “abusive” you were and only think about all the reasons why they had to discard you.

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What is the final discard stage of narcissistic abuse?

Discard/Rejection: When the narcissist gets bored or decides the person is no longer useful enough to them, they'll often end the relationship and 'discard' the person. Sometimes, this ending is final.

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Do narcissists regret discarding you?

It is common for people with a narcissistic personality disorder to regret discarding or losing someone, but it does not mean what you might think. If they feel regret, it is not because they hurt you. It is for losing something that they value.

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Does a narcissist ever let go of a victim?

Breakups with narcissists don't always end the relationship. Many won't let you go, even when they are the ones who left the relationship, and even when they're with a new partner. They won't accept “no.” They hoover in an attempt to rekindle the relationship or stay friends after a breakup or divorce.

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When a narcissist realizes they lost you?

A tactic that narcissists will often use once they realize that they've lost control over you is self-victimization. When a narcissist victimizes themselves it means that they label themselves as victims and blame their problems on external factors.

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Do narcissists care if you move on?

Narcissists can't take rejection and they see it as a personal attraction to their character. Even after long periods of the breakup, they can't accept the fact that you're moving on. Now that you're seeing someone else, your narcissistic ex would act like a predator.

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What turns a narcissist off?

The best way to shut down a narcissist is to walk away from them. If all else fails, you can physically remove yourself from the conversation. Even if they keep talking, simply turn around and walk away. If they follow you, close the door.

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What happens to narcissists in the end?

At the end of a relationship, narcissists may become combative, passive-aggressive, hostile, and even more controlling. People with NPD often fail to understand other people's needs and values. They are hyper focused on their egos, but do not account for how their actions affect others.

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What eventually happens to narcissists?

According to Julie L. Hall, author of “The Narcissist in Your Life: Recognizing the Patterns and Learning to Break Free,” narcissists become more extreme versions of their worst selves as they age, which includes becoming more desperate, deluded, paranoid, angry, abusive, and isolated.

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What is the cycle of a narcissist breakup?

The relationship cycle typical of extreme narcissistic abuse generally follows a pattern. Individuals in emotionally abusive relationships experience a dizzying whirlwind that includes three stages: idealization, devaluing, and discarding.

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Can a narcissist fall in love permanently?

Can a Narcissist Ever Be Happy in a Relationship? While it may be possible for a narcissist to develop feelings of love towards someone else, they struggle to maintain lasting relationships due to their lack of empathy and tendency towards selfishness.

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What makes a narcissist snap?

Narcissistic rage occurs when a narcissist's beliefs about their perceived importance or grandiosity are confronted. In turn, they respond with extreme anger toward the perceived threat. Whether narcissistic rage results from criticism, losing control, or minor setbacks, being on the receiving end can be terrifying.

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What is the psychology of blocking someone?

The psychology of blocking someone can have a harsh impact, with some individuals brushing it off while others become deeply aggrieved. This can lead to negative emotional reactions, ranging from sadness to anger and even depression. In extreme cases, it can cause a person to seek out and confront the blocker.

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Why do narcissists delete you?

Daramus lists some reasons why a person with narcissistic tendencies might discard you: You were too difficult for them to control. You were easily manipulated by them, causing them to look down upon you. You no longer fuel their ego, so they've moved on to someone else who can supply what they need.

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How long can a narcissist keep up the act?

Narcissistic relationships can last anywhere from a few days or weeks to many years. There are anecdotal observations suggesting that the average length of a narcissistic relationship is around six months, but no empirical evidence supports this claim.

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