The Virgo man fears rejection, and this means that regardless of who ended the relationship if there is to be a second chance, it will be the woman who must face rejection. However, getting this guy back can be a mind game that's likely to be difficult.
Don't try to force Virgos to do anything they hate.
Virgos are fiercely independent and will not tolerate people with controlling personalities, as they have an insatiable desire for success on their OWN terms. If they feel like you are trying to force your own views on them, they will be turned off.
Virgos have a high tolerance for being ignored.
Introverted and independent, they may not even notice you're ignoring them. They'll go about their day as if nothing's the matter—and they're not even trying to be mean! This could be a sign that you're not as close to them as you thought.
They get very disappointed with incompetent work as they are very particular about their work. Virgos aim for perfection in all things so it is a little hard to determine what all disappoints them. But, to make it easier, they get disappointed when things aren't done their way, i.e the sole, PERFECT way.
He is afraid of getting hurt emotionally.
A Virgo man may pull away because he's afraid of getting emotionally attached to someone and then getting hurt in the end.
If you're ignoring him, he likely won't take it as a sign to pursue you more. Instead, he'll likely interpret as a signal that you're not into him, and he will want to avoid you so he can skip potentially being rejected. Virgo guys don't like to be vulnerable and go out on a limb in dating.
When it comes to relationships, Virgo men definitely need their own time to think things through before they take any action. So, if you can be patient and let him move at his own pace, he will eventually come around and chase you. If you make your Virgo man test his patience, he will become easily frustrated.
Virgos don't like to end relationships, so he'll try to motivate you to end it. He won't hug you, kiss you, or say “I love you”—instead, he'll try to push you to your limit. If he isn't treating you with love and respect, he's probably trying to convince you to end things.
03/8Virgo. They are extremely careful about what they express in front of others. They prefer to keep to themselves and not show their vulnerable side. Their fear of getting hurt is so strong that they will prefer staying alone over getting heartbroken.
Being extremely emotional and sensitive, it is for this, Virgo man doesn't recover easily from a breakup and move on. It is difficult for them to accept the fact or reason that the story of his love has come to an end and it is time for him to move.
Virgos are sensitive and sentimental creatures but they try not to make it very evident. In fact, they're particularly good at keeping their feelings bottled up and prefer to hide their emotions. They don't open up or get attached too soon and prefer to tread slowly and carefully.
He'll look at the way you treat others.
Virgo will simply pay careful attention to your interactions with other people to test you. He may also invite you to do volunteer work with him. Passing his test is easy: show him that you'll go out of your way to help and care for him, your friends, and your family.
A virgo will scan the person upside down, inside out and then probably let the spark within them arise. If they do feel the spark, then it's subtle. They have a very casual approach and conversation with the subject, pretending like nothing is going on.
Being all the time calm, others are coming to them for relaxation, but in the same time they're becoming annoyed because these natives have strong emotions. Virgos can't forgive people after they've hurt them, and are never forgetting. Their friends shouldn't expect to win their trust again very easily.
As Virgo men are highly analytical and frequently perfectionists, they may regret ending relationships. They are prone to overthinking events and continually reliving them in their minds. The issue is that a Virgo guy may feel analysis paralysis if he dwells on relationship regrets for too long.
Be direct and upfront when you're talking to a Virgo man and he'll notice your authenticity right away. He's a little distrustful by nature and doesn't forgive easily. He'll be drawn to you if you're transparent with him from the get-go.
She may feel betrayed, angry, or hurt and she might need to work through some things. Virgos can be notoriously private, so don't try for a conversation until she's ready to talk or she may push away even more. She might need a few days to sort out how she's feeling or she might cut off communication for longer.
He'll get jealous for the attention you're getting from (and offering to) other folks. He'll utilize their active brain to find away ways to get a lot more of your own time and attention.
The desire to reach perfection is Virgo biggest weakness. Often, Virgo invests so much time and energy in focusing on minor details that they cannot get into the mainframe or bigger picture. They are so detail-oriented that they may end up getting stressed and anxious.
Virgo. At first, Virgos will try to augment their behavior and improve their outlook regarding the breakup. Over time, they'll opt to seek out revenge on their ex if they feel gaslighted by the responses given to them during the demise of the relationship.