Losing your virginity is a special and unique experience no matter the circumstances; it can be unusual, a little awkward, and sometimes anxiety-inducing. But when you take your first time slowly and listen to your body, it can also be really beautiful and memorable. There's nothing to worry about.
Just because it's your first night after the wedding does not mean you have to have intercourse with your partner. It is quite natural for both of you to have first-night jitters. Instead, try watching a movie together while cuddling or just talk to each other.
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What guys expect on first night?
If he's on his A-game, he's going to set the mood with champagne, rose petals and some sexy music. His goal: seeing that look in your eyes that tells him you can't resist him. Don't worry, it'll come naturally. The only thing men love more than lingerie is watching a woman take off lingerie.
Your first wedding night is going to be an extremely emotional as well as a special experience for you and your partner. There are chances that you might even not have sex and believe us, it's absolutely fine. As long as you both enjoy each other's company, it doesn't matter what you do and what you don't do.
However there is ONE tradition that most couples still believe in, and that's not spending the night before the wedding together. In fact, we polled our Woman Getting Married readers, and 70% of you are choosing to sleep apart the night before the wedding, which is not surprising to us at all.
Why can't bride and groom sleep together night before?
Superstitious beliefs have kept many a couple separated until the ceremony, protecting their matrimonial fate from being doomed from the start. The tradition of spending the wedding eve apart is when to-be-weds refrain from seeing one another the night before their wedding, often until the ceremony.
The bedding ceremony refers to the wedding custom of putting the newlywed couple together in the marital bed in front of numerous witnesses, usually family, friends, and neighbors, thereby completing the marriage.
The “first night effect” (FNE) is a well-known phenomenon in polysomnographic (PSG) recordings characterized by decreased total sleep time, lower sleep efficiencies, reduction in REM sleep, and longer REM latencies on the first night of testing (Agnew, Webb, & Williams,1966).
Bedtime couple intimate activities include cuddling, massaging, kissing, and making love. Sleeping habits are also essential for couples, and couples should lie down together whenever possible.
We say go all emotional and express yourself to your partner. Talk about the marriage, talk about your partner, talk about legally becoming partners, talk about the anxiety and talk about how dreamy the moment feels like.
You will be experiencing a lot of sensations for the first time that might make your body to react in a certain way that you won't be expecting. So, don't be embarrassed about that. Just enjoy your time with your partner.
