The ability to regenerate and rise from the ashes requires symbolic death, but that doesn't mean breakups are easy for Scorpios. In fact, they have an extremely difficult time letting go. Whether a Scorpio initiates or not, they always feel jilted after a breakup.
Scorpios are passionate lovers. The way they care for their partners or the way they love is sincere and awe-inspiring. And maybe that's why they're always haunted by the memories of their ex-lovers.
Your Scorpio man will be nearly 100 percent confident that he still has feelings for you, making him the most likely to return to your failed relationship after a split with or without communication.
Because Scorpios invest so much of themselves into their relationship, they don't take breakups lightly. Once a Scorpio decides they're done with a relationship, they tend to end it and never look back. While that's true for most of their exes, there are three zodiac signs Scorpio will likely regret breaking up with.
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When a relationship is over, they like to feel like they're still connected to their ex, even if their ex has moved on. They also like to think that they have a deeper connection with an ex than anyone else who comes after.
Also, Scorpios can go through periods of extreme bonding followed by extreme distance, leaving their partners quite perplexed. Some of them are also prone to abandonment issues. Because of these reasons, Scorpios are perceived to be one of the most difficult zodiac signs to date.
Toward the end when a Scorpio man is ready to end things, he'll get ready to move on. Once he's pulled the plug on your relationship, he simply won't stick around. There may be a brief explanation of his desire to leave you, but he won't attempt to console you for very long or stay in touch.
Scorpios, when hurt, will sting.
The Scorpio sting is a defense mechanism. If your Scorpio gets snippy or downright cruel (as they can), try to reach through that hard shell and touch upon the real reason they are upset.
In the majority of instances, the no-contact rule is most effective when both parties are aware of and agree to it. In this way, your Scorpio man will not believe you are neglecting him or being unkind. Set up a phone or in-person meeting with him and inform him of your plans.
The worst thing that a Scorpio does after a break-up is build a wall around his emotions and isolate himself completely. But he would keep a keen eye on his ex-partner's life and there are chances that he would resurface like a ghost from the past. It takes a Scorpio a long time to get over a break-up.
A broken-hearted Scorpion is likely to hold contempt towards and bitterness for the person who, in their eyes, betrayed them. The breakup is probably going to hurt them and leave them completely devastated. Even the kindest Scorpio is most likely to struggle in forgetting their ex if you betray their trust.
For a Scorpio, it's extremely hard to deal with an inner turmoil. And when they feel that they have lost interest in you, they'll panic and become very defensive. They'll avoid confrontations but will also initiate unnecessary discussions about the things that are going wrong in your relationship.
They are intense and deeply emotional by nature. If they could be with their soulmate forever, they would. Because Scorpios invest so much of themselves into their relationship, they don't take breakups lightly. Once they decide they are done with a relationship, they tend to end it and never look back.
Scorpio men are often nostalgic.
If you two have shared some good times together, send him a text or a pic about them as a fun reminder. The more he thinks about all the fun stuff you've done in the past, the more he'll start to miss you and want to create new memories.
Scorpio cry to prove that they are the one victimized. To put it simply, they trick others by crying. They also cry when they are left alone and have no one to baby sit them. Loneliness is something of which scorpions are afraid of.
The Scorpio personality is often misunderstood due to their intensity and their tendency to be harsh. However, Scorpios are extremely emotional, and crave intimacy. They have a powerful presence and demanding personalities, and their penchant for mystery is what makes them one of the most interesting signs.
Despite the face that they show to the world, deep down, Scorpios have incredibly sensitive hearts. As a water sign, they feel all emotions very deeply, and they must guard their hearts with a shield. There are only a few carefully selected people who can break through this shield and see them for who they truly are.
Scorpio's fierce sense of independence makes these water signs natural introverts perfectly suited to solitary life. Solo time is Scorpio's essential lifeblood—without the opportunity to it alone, Scorpio would wither and likely spiral into a depressive state.
Give up on the chase
You might want to consider giving up and moving on. This is due to the fact that if a Scorpion treats you silently and dismissively, it's likely to last a lifetime. For this reason, you don't want to steadily irritate a Scorpio mate. Play it safe and just get going from here!
You lie to them
Scorpios can't stand being lied to. They also consider lying a waste of time. Situations where they have to lie (which they will only do if they really, really care about someone) are unbearable for them.
Primary Love Languages: Physical Touch and Acts of Service
Passionate, intense and extremely emotional, Scorpios are the most extreme bunch in the zodiac. Because Scorpios are so good at plotting and hiding how they truly feel, it can be difficult to really get to know them.
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They are one of the most complex zodiac signs on the wheel. Not only do they not trust anyone but they won't let anyone else figure out their thoughts easily. They will keep their feelings hidden until someone very special walks into their lives, making them believe in love, trust and understanding.
Scorpio men need a lot of space for themselves.
If you give him the room to flourish and aren't breathing down his neck all the time, he's going to become obsessed with you and your laid back nature. Plus, this gives him more time to chase you instead of feeling like you're smothering him.