How do you discreetly spread ashes?

Make a circle on the ground
Scatter the ashes into a circle in your garden or a local park, then ask friends and family members to step into the circle and say a few words about your loved one. You can then rake the ashes to spread them out across the earth.

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What is the etiquette for scattering ashes?

Scattering ashes at sea or in rivers
  • Make sure the place you choose isn't near a fishery or marina.
  • Check that the site is no less than 1km upstream from a water plant or reservoir.
  • If possible, choose a day with calm weather so that ashes are not blown into neighbouring land or areas.

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Is it safe to touch cremated ashes?

Cremation occurs at such a hot temperature all micro-organisms are destroyed, and the remaining ashes are inert. After cremation there are no public health risks associated with handling ashes.

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What do you say when releasing ashes?

Here are some notable quotes that you can mention during the scattering of ashes:
  • “To us, the ashes of our ancestors are sacred. ...
  • “Lives are like rivers: Eventually they go where they must. ...
  • “Every man's life ends the same way. ...
  • “Ashes to Ashes”
  • “She's in the Sun, the Wind, the Rain”
  • “A Psalm of Life”

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Is it legal to scatter ashes in Australia?

Do I need permission to scatter ashes on private property? We recommend asking for permission from the landowners if you intend to scatter human ashes on private property. However, scattering ashes on private property is legal in Australia.

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Can I scatter ashes on the beach?

Yes. You are allowed to scatter ashes on a beach. Read below for some ideas and tips to make sure the ceremony goes smoothly.

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Is it OK to separate ashes after cremation?

Your loved one's ashes don't have to stay together either. Families can choose to split the ashes of the deceased among the wider family, where the individual families can choose what they want to do with them.

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What does God say about keeping ashes?

In the Bible, there are no passages that prohibit or encourage cremation and scattering of ashes. However, many Christian sects believe a burial funeral aligns with best end-of-life practices. As a result, some Christian clerics may discourage cremation or prohibit it entirely.

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How do you respect ashes?

7 Ways to Honor Your Loved One's Cremated Remains
  1. Create a work of art. Ashes can be used to create a painting. ...
  2. Slowly release cremated remains into the ocean. ...
  3. Launch ashes into space. ...
  4. Take to the skies. ...
  5. Use cremated ashes in a memorial tattoo. ...
  6. Wear ashes in one-of-a-kind jewelry. ...
  7. Create a candle urn.

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Do you keep or release ashes?

You can keep the ashes for as long as you need to. 2. Only designated people can collect the ashes after the cremation. As part of the cremation paperwork, you will need to complete a form which names the person, or people, who are authorised to collect the ashes.

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Do ashes in an urn smell?

In most cases, cremated remains are odourless. They may have a slightly metallic odour or some people say they smell somewhat like incense in some cases. However, it is common for ashes to have no distinct smell. Nonetheless, they can take on the smell of the container or cremation urn they are in.

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How long do human ashes last in an urn?

Ashes have no expiry date

There's no rush on moving or transferring them. You can keep them in the container from the crematorium for as long as you need. You might keep them in your home forever, or you might decide to scatter or bury them at a later date.

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Is it OK to keep human ashes at home?

Is it OK to Keep Cremains at Home? There's nothing bad about keeping cremated remains at home. Even though the practice is legal, those from specific faith communities may object to the practice. Some religious faiths, such as followers of Islam, Eastern Orthodox, and some Jewish sects forbid cremation.

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Do you scatter ashes with your hands?

Use the vessel or your hands to scatter the ashes. Many people also wonder, “How do you scatter ashes?” Most often you can use the vessel that houses the ashes to toss them into the air. If you are comfortable handling the ashes yourself, you may also reach in with your hands to throw them.

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Do you take flowers to a scattering of ashes?

Flowers are closely associated with funerals. And scattering flower during the ceremony adds a really love touch to the proceedings. You may choose a type of flower because that was your loved one favourite, you may choose one because you think it is fitting or you like the colour.

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Is there energy in cremated ashes?

Cremains contain what is known as rest energy, sometimes referred to as free or dormant energy. This type of energy is still subject to the restraints of natural law, and can have no physical or spiritual impact on those around it.

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How do you separate loved ones ashes?

How to divide cremated remains. Most crematoriums return the ashes in a plastic bag, placed in a "temporary urn" made often from cardboard. This will work fine to divide ashes. If the funeral provider is dividing for you, you would ask them beforehand and provide the urns or containers you have selected.

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Do ashes get blessed?

Together we shall be again, ashes mingled with ashes, as together we came out of the stars and earth, stardust and mud, extraordinary and mundane. These ashes are blessed, because these persons' lives were holy, worthy, and meaningful. These ashes are blessed, a reminder of the gift of our beloveds' lives.

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What happens to human ashes in water?

Human ashes do not dissolve in the ocean's waters. However, being a coarse, gritty, sand-like substance, the ashes will scatter throughout the ocean with no negative effects.

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Is it disrespectful to separate ashes?

No, it is not a sin to separate ashes. The Bible does not specifically mention cremation or the scattering of ashes, so there is no ruling on this matter. However, some people may have religious or spiritual beliefs that say cremation and the scattering of ashes are not acceptable.

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Why keep ashes of loved ones?

Keeping ashes in the home can be a comforting and meaningful way to still feel connected to a loved one for many people. The key point to remember is that you decide what feels right for you; there is no right or wrong way to grieve.

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Will I go to heaven if I am cremated?

No matter what a person's preference is, from the Christian perspective, cremation does not prevent one from going to Heaven.

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How many cups of ashes are left after cremation?

The average amount of ash left over after the cremation of an adult is about 3 to 3.5 liters or 183 to 213 cubic inches. For a child this will be 0.8 to 2 liters or 54 to 122 cubic inches and for a (premature) baby 0.3 to 0.7 liters or 18 to 43 cubic inches. Your crematorium will always know the exact volume.

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Can a Catholic be cremated?

As a Catholic, may I be cremated? Yes. In May 1963, the Vatican's Holy Office (now the Congregation of the Doctrine of Faith) lifted the prohibition forbidding Catholics to choose cremation.

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How many cups of ashes do you need after cremation?

Think 3 standard bottles of motor oil, plus a half. Cups - 200 cubic inches equals 13.85 cups. This is like a medium-sized crock pot not quite full. Ounces - 200 cubic inches equals 110.82 fluid ounces.

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