Ask open-ended questions.
If a guy is shy and you ask a closed question–a question with a yes or no answer–you're going to get a one-word answer almost every time. Learn to ask specific and engaging questions if you want to draw someone out and give them something to talk about. Make your questions specific.
Studies show that introverted or shy men are likely to be attracted to both shy and outgoing women, while extroverted men may have a preference for outgoing women.
He takes a few glances secretly
If a shy guy likes you, he will secretly gaze at you once in a while to admire you. He will work like a secret admirer who secretly loves to watch over you. But, being a shy guy, he becomes nervous whenever you catch him. He will avert his gaze wherever you gaze back.
A shy guy will volunteer to do things for you just to be around you. If he's jumping at every opportunity to help you out, he's super into you. But even if he hasn't volunteered, a shy guy with a crush will jump at the opportunity to make you happy if you ask him, especially if it means they get to hang out around you.
So, if a known introvert starts suggesting things to you, and hands you a collection of movies or music, it might not just be a suggestion but a subtle invitation to enjoy it together. Regardless, sharing something they are interested in, is pretty much all an introvert can do to convey their feelings for someone.
Being an introvert can be extremely attractive to some people. Introversion can seem mysterious and intriguing, especially if it pairs with qualities such as kindness or being a caring person. If you are an introvert, someone may be attracted to the fact that you appear humble and down to earth.
Touch him on the arm or the shoulder.
This is a way to let him know that you like him, which could make him feel more comfortable about opening up to you. You could also give him a hug or kiss him on the cheek. If he reciprocates your physical touches, it's a good sign that he's into you.
Silent men know themselves inside and out. They are well aware of their likes and dislikes and tend to focus on it. This also gives them time to figure out their partner and understand their preferences. They are sophisticated, trustable and know their goals.
Some guys are so shy that they won't make the first move, even if you send signals loud and clear. If you're having a good time and you've both been flirty all night, feel free to make the first move yourself. Shy guys usually appreciate having someone make the first move.
Spend quality time together. Most introverts appreciate activities where you can be alone. Instead of spending all your time together in a group, try to plan activities where you two can really connect with each other. Go places on your own where there aren't a ton of people around so you can talk deeply.
But when an introvert is interested in you, they will set aside their distaste for small talk. They'll ask you about everyday things and will then show interest in these subjects and ask even more questions. Why is that? Because they want to know more about you.
Men who are shy and quiet generally don't care for small talk, so a conversation about nothing, in particular, will probably not go well. Try talking about mutual interests or non-controversial current events.
The clues aren't always obvious, but you can see some of them by paying attention. When someone finds you physically attractive, it shows by always making eye contact, always wanting to touch you physically, and frequently initiating conversations.
If a guy asks you about your goals, shows genuine interest in your family, likes, and dislikes, or wants to know about your past relationships, it is likely that he is into you.
Their heart will beat rapidly from being around you. Other signs include unexplained laughter, sweaty palms and fidgeting. People like to be in control of their emotions. If they have trouble doing that around you, it's most likely because you make them nervous and excited.
A shy guy may steal glances at you if he happens to like you and get nervous around you. He will listen to you intently and will do anything to grant your wishes. He may look upset if you show interest in other men. Nicknaming and noticing your small changes are a few signs that indicate his interest in you.
If a guy stares at you when you are not noticing or feels shy to talk when you are around, it may mean he has feelings for you but is scared to express them. He may often joke about going on a date with you, remember your smallest details, or start avoiding you for no reason.
Another clear sign he likes you is if he is actively trying to hang out with you, or help you, or find out more about you. There are also indicators like eye contact or compliments, and showing that he's interested in your physical appearance, or who you are as a person.