If she responds consistently with “we'll see” or anything equally wishy washy, she might not be sure she wants to be with you that far into the future, Fleming says. Meanwhile, if she always wants to schedule stuff with you at the last minute, you might be her backup plan.
Confront her about her flirtatious or leading-on behavior. If you're interested in her, you need to know if she likes you or not. You may be scared to talk to her for fear of being rejected, but you'll never know how she really feels or what she really means by her flirting until you directly ask.
If your partner doesn't plan dates anymore, makes plans within a 24 hour time period, or only ever wants to chill at home, therapist Alisha Powell, PhD, LCSW, tells Bustle, they might be stringing you along.
Sometimes, women pull away and need space due to their own thoughts, feelings, and past experiences. If you go into panic mode, it may lead them to distance more, so give the person some time and let them know that it's okay for them to be independent or in need of space.
She doesn't ask if you want to go somewhere or try new things together. She doesn't suggest date night or doing something exciting and different at home. She just settles for whatever is comfortable and easy for the two of you.
A lot of women pull away because they've developed feelings for someone else. Maybe she never planned on being interested in someone else but it just happened. Or maybe she hasn't even realized she's attracted to this other person yet.
Flirt with her a little if she seems okay with it.
If it seems like she's comfortable with you and enjoys your company, try adding a little light flirting into the mix. Make sure to make eye contact and smile a lot when you talk to her. You can also flirt by: Joking with her and teasing her playfully.
How do you know if she is taking advantage of you?
Obvious signs you're being used are only being contacted when it's convenient for the other person, feeling like someone wants you for their own personal gain, or having a one-sided relationship. Genuine people will like you for you, not for what you own.
A woman who truly likes you would be grateful for all your work to make the relationship work. She would appreciate all your gestures, however small they may be, and ensures that she reciprocates and makes you happy. A woman who doesn't reciprocate is most likely taking advantage of you.
Perhaps wait for an intimate moment between the two of you. Make sure they're listening and ready to discuss your relationship. If you're feeling uncertain about saying that you like (or maybe even love) them, don't rush it. It may take some time to determine the right moment.
In conclusion, there are various reasons why a woman may lose interest in a man. These can include a lack of emotional connection, communication breakdown, the man stopping efforts, societal pressures, life goals/values not aligning, and more.
She might be unsure of how she feels about you and a future with you. When things get serious, it is not that uncommon for people to second guess what they feel and take some time to sort things out in their heads. If she pulls back, give her the space to find out what it is she wants.
