How do you know if she wants you but is hiding it?
One of the clear signs a girl likes you but is trying not to show it is jealousy. If she likes you, she may get jealous when you talk to other girls, talk about other girls, or spend time with others. This is a sign that she sees you as more than just a friend and wants you all.
Often, women won't come out and say “I like you” or “I'm attracted to you” or “I want you to take me home”. In the early stages of dating, they're scared of being vulnerable in case they scare you off, or if you don't feel the same way yet.
Look at how she acts when she's around you—open body language, eye contact, and physical touch are signs that she could be interested. See what she says during a conversation; if she likes you, she might compliment you (or even tease you). Get the ball rolling by offering her a smile and striking up a conversation.
If she knows and does like you back she will talk to you more, walk near you, sit next to you, make eye contact, twirl her hair, or give you compliments. She may also be secretive about who she likes.
Showing her that you genuinely care about her will make it easier for her to open up to you about her feelings for you. You'll also learn more about her, which can make future conversations more intimate and easier to initiate.
Make eye contact when you're talking to them, or hold their gaze for a couple of extra seconds when your eyes meet in the hallway. You could playfully tease them, or send a flirty text after school to let them know you're thinking about them.
How many dates does it take for a girl to like you?
Three dates is a good rule of thumb.
This isn't a hard and fast rule, but let's say you spend two to three hours together on each date, with some emailing, texting, or phone time in between. That's a pretty fair amount of time together. If you're not feeling any sense of chemistry or attachment, it's OK to give up.
The clues aren't always obvious, but you can see some of them by paying attention. When someone finds you physically attractive, it shows by always making eye contact, always wanting to touch you physically, and frequently initiating conversations.
Say, "I wanted to tell you that I have a crush on you" or "I really like hanging out with you, and I want you to know that I have feelings for you." When you tell your crush, look them in the eye and relax your body. Don't stand too close to them or look at the floor, or you'll look either too eager or too withdrawn.
How do you tell a girl you like her but you are shy?
The great secret to getting over shyness is just coming out and saying what you feel. It is not easy, but it is the only way to do it. Keep it short and to the point. "I really like you, and I'd love to go out on a date sometime," is all you need to say.
Confessing in person is always best, but if that's not possible, then a phone call or text message might work. Try to avoid confessing via social media, as it can be very easy for things to get misinterpreted. When you do confess your feelings, make sure you are genuine and honest.
