Good kissers are soft but passionate. They practice good hygiene, know how to move their lips and tongue to make the kiss feel passionate. They listen to their partners. They kiss confidently and make their partners feel wanted.
You get too intense too quickly
If you're launching yourself at your partner, expecting an intense make-out session right away, you're probably going to be labeled a bad kisser, said sex expert Antonia Hall. Make sure you lead with your lips and keep the tongue action to a minimum, at least at first.
First, keep your lips soft and slightly opened, in a gently inviting and receptive way. Don't press them together tightly, but also avoid opening them too wide. Drooling and too much saliva is almost always a turn-off for men and women. On the other hand, some women and men like steamy, sloppy, wet kissing.
Whilst bad breath, a darting tongue and a wet sloppy kiss are rated as the biggest kissing turn-offs according to science, it might also be your smell, taste or even your pheromones that's causing the problem. Being a bad kisser can be a deal breaker, but kissing is more complicated than most people think.
Someone who is a bad kisser is not very good at kissing.
Passionate person: whisper something in his ear like “do it again!” and just keep kissing… Funny person: look at him laugh and he should laugh too after that you should act chill don't make it sound like it's a whole joke so he's scared to kiss you next time just say something like “ nice kiss , I really liked it!”
Not everyone is comfortable with teeth during a kiss, so it's generally best to stick to a gentle tug on the lips. Anything more than that might be worth a conversation to touch base on what you both feel comfortable with.
Ease back out of the kiss, keeping yourself close to your partner's face. After the kiss, pull your head back slowly to give each of you some space. If you wrapped a hand around each other, you can lightly ease off, or hold each other close for a more intimate moment. Look your partner in the eyes and smile.
Using too much of tongue
Some people even lean for their first kiss by sticking their tongue inside their partner's mouth. That is downright sloppy. It can be truly disgusting especially if you have just met this person. So when you are kissing, always start with the lips and then use the tongue.
*Show him the way. Initiate by teasing him with intimate kissing techniques when he least expects, since once his mouth starts moving too much, it's going to be tricky to tame him. Instead, sensuously nibble or gently suck on his lip, and give him a tender surface lip kiss.
French kiss is regarded as the kiss for lovers. It is the most passionate and erotic kiss. You need to use your tongue for this kiss. It takes time to practice and be perfect in the French kiss, so start practicing!
You've probably never timed it, but maybe you've wished it lasted longer. In John Gottman's relationship research, he was able to find that six seconds is the length of a kiss that can actually create a connection with your partner. In fact, he recommends you have at least one six-second kiss per day.
Sometimes they feel love. If you are in a relationship with the guy you're kissing, he's probably thinking about how much he cares about you. Even if you're not in a relationship, the rush of oxytocin released while your lips are locked is sure to have him feeling warm and fuzzy about you.
Metabolic boost – kissing burns kilojoules. The more passionate the kiss, the greater the metabolic boost. Healthier mouth – saliva contains substances that fight bacteria, viruses and fungi. Deep kissing increases the flow of saliva, which helps to keep the mouth, teeth and gums healthy.
The anticipation of a kiss increases the flow of saliva to your mouth and gives your teeth a plaque-dispersing bath. Bad breath can't be passed on to another person via kissing.