"If you're going to compliment his physique do so in clear terms," says Spurr. "If he's slim and muscular, say how much you love his toned body; if he's skinny, tell him why you prefer your man that way. And definitely also emphasise his personality, GSOH, skills in bed, etc., so you take the focus off his physique."
Poor body image is not just a female issue - many men are also dissatisfied with their body image. Poor body image in men can be linked to dieting, excessive exercising, eating disorders and steroid misuse.
While it's likely true that women face more societal pressure to meet certain body standards, they're not alone in struggling to accept their bodies. Men face intense pressure to look a set way, and they can feel deeply insecure, and less of a man, if they don't meet this ideal.
Research shows that, in men, body image issues are linked with lower self-esteem, lower life satisfaction and a lack of confidence. Body image issues can also lead to a host of mental health problems, such as severe anxiety and depression.
You could say, “Your body looks amazing. Those suicide sprints are really paying off,” or “You looked really strong climbing that rock wall.” If your boyfriend has lost a lot of weight through a fitness regimen, don't be afraid to appreciate his progress. You could say, “Wow, that shirt fits you so well.
Play with his nipples, sucking on them then blowing on them for extra stimulation; explore his chest and abdomen with your hands; squeeze his behind; and caress his skin from top to toe, to make sure all his nerve endings are on fire for your touch.
Like women, men want a life partner who will be trustworthy, faithful and reliable. They want a wife who will stand by their side and, considering divorce rates, it's no surprise that dependability would continue to be attractive.
If you don't feel comfortable with your body, it's likely to have a knock-on impact on your relationship with your partner. Clients often seek out my support when they feel that negative body image is ruining their relationship. They fear that if they don't act, their marriage or partnership will be in trouble.
Weight is a major source of anxiety for men, and it isn't just about feeling overweight – many men feel anxiety about being underweight. We want to be bigger, more muscular. But there are other common body image issues men deal with. Baldness is one.
