Briefly describe what happened that felt hurtful or disrespectful. Say, “When I was talking, you (said or did this).” Don't go into a long story about what occurred or try to soften the blow by saying you know they didn't mean to be offensive. One sentence that describes your experience of their behavior is enough.
When a man hurts a woman he loves, he feels emotions such as anger, guilt, frustration, self-loathe, fear, etc. Although he may not express his feelings confidently, a man will show signs he is sorry for hurting you or signs he knows he hurt you.
4) They Feel The Pain As Much As The Woman Does
But if a kindhearted man hurts a woman he loves — physically or emotionally — he feels similar levels of pain in his heart. The guilt and regret he feels translate into pain, and this makes it even more difficult to accept what he's done to his woman.
Most men who initiate breakups or hurt their partners through their actions or words do eventually experience remorse over losing their beloved. Ultimately, your man will likely realize the flaws in his behavior and actions. Men do painfully come to terms with the harsh reality that they've lost a very special lady.
Men regret losing the kind of woman who is emotionally independent, bold enough to take care of her own life and happiness, and kind to her near and dear ones. She doesn't look back after someone disrespects her and won't give in easily to the proposition of getting back together with that person.
He won't want to bring it up or talk about whatever he did because he hopes you will forget about it. On the other hand, if he's done something bad and now he feels uncomfortable being around you because of all that guilt, he may lash out in other ways. He may be ruder, he may pick more fights, etc.
If a guy feels embarrassed about his past behavior, it is one of the positive signs a guy knows he messed up. As a responsible person, he feels ashamed about his irresponsible behavior. On top of that, he is also embarrassed that he lost the chance of having a perfect life with you by doing something stupid.
Men, in particular, can be guarded when they're hurt. Instead of telling you when they feel hurt, they may withdraw, lash out, or act in other strange ways. These reactions can be frustrating and confusing. But it's important to know both the subtle and clear signs that a man is hurt emotionally.
The best revenge is to learn to forgive, not to hold onto the anger inside. To forgive means to be free.
Bring up other things they've done wrong.
Make it seem like this is a pattern of behavior you've come to expect, and certainly not one that you deserve. It's most effective if you bring up things that are similar to whatever you're trying to get the person to apologize for, but it can be anything that upset you.
Typically, it will take over a month for him to realize and regret what he's done, which is most likely much too late. Also, it's not certain that a guy will have regrets after a month, it could be after two months, six months, or even a year.
A guilty person may avoid answering direct questions, refuse to provide information that could be used against them, or simply disappear altogether. Another telltale sign is that a guilty person may tend to lie or provide false explanations for their behavior.
Men don't tend to feel regret straight away. In fact, it can take them up to six months before they start to regret losing a good woman. One of the things that will make him regret it sooner is seeing you with someone better than him.
Fear of conflict.
Usually, the longer you've been with someone, the more conflicted the process is. It is a sad reality that many men (and women) stay in unfulfilling relationships month after month, year after year, because they fear the pain involved in breaking up and moving on.
1- When something weird happens in your man's life, their stress level gets increased. Due to this, they seem to be detached from you. You also may not see them investing in the relationship. During that time, you should be calm and give company to your man rather than complaining about his behaviour.
He may admire you even more. Some men realize the importance of their lady love only when they move away from them. Your man may understand your worth only after you broke up with him. He will figure out that you are an independent woman who doesn't wait for anyone, for which he will admire you a lot.