What Makes Narcissists Angry? These 10 Bizarre Things May Surprise You (Or NOT)
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How do you terrorize a narcissist?
Tease, ridicule, and shame them mercilessly for not trying to figure out right from wrong, instead, pretending to have it all figured out. Stay calm, even friendly, to the person cowering inside their absolute narcissistic fake infallibility cloak. Stay light, even humorous. It's nothing personal.
Grooming a person, manipulating her into doubting her feelings, generating shame regarding her best qualities, and manipulatively creating dependency are four ways a narcissist destroys a person from the inside out.
Pretty much anything that doesn't give a narcissist what they feel entitled to will make them angry. If you ignore them, disregard their advice, or make decisions without getting their input, they will make their disapproval known to you.
Narcissists do get worse as they get older. With age comes a lack of independence and narcissistic supply. So, aging narcissists tend to become the extreme versions of their worst selves. They don't develop a late-onset self-awareness, they just become more abusive, manipulative, hypersensitive, rageful, and entitled.
True narcissists cannot tolerate being provoked and they have what's called narcissistic rage, which is an intense fury, accompanied by the need to punish those who have offended them. It's a bad idea to make a narcissist mad.
When a narcissistic person doesn't get a constant supply of validation or someone injures their self-esteem, their confident and superior facade can collapse. A narcissistic collapse may happen because others don't see the person like they want to be seen, for example.
They already think they're better than everyone else, so you don't need to worry about over-inflating their ego. Simply smile and point out their best qualities. If you can't think of anything, it's okay to use generic compliments because the narcissist won't care.
Breakups with narcissists don't always end the relationship. Many won't let you go, even when they are the ones who left the relationship, and even when they're with a new partner. They won't accept “no.” They hoover in an attempt to rekindle the relationship or stay friends after a breakup or divorce.
A monumental weakness in the narcissist is the failure to look internally and flesh out what needs to be worked on. Then, of course, the next step is to spend time improving. The narcissist sabotages any possibility of looking deep within.
Narcissists thrive on drama. They will gaslight you into a belief that everything is your fault, denying blatant lies, and play a victim. Don't allow the narcissist to pull you in their pattern. Try to always stick to the facts.
