Trying to make your partner smile or laugh. For example, you could share a joke, tell a funny story, or act silly to entertain them. Receptive listening. Encouraging your partner to share their emotions by talking about what has just happened or how they are feeling.
In plain language: Men often feel most loved by the women in their lives when their partners hug them, kiss them, smile at them, and explicitly offer gratitude, praise, and words of affection. Men also feel loved and connected through sexuality, often to a greater degree than women do.
Ask him questions about how he feels and what he really thinks. Transcend the typical mundane dialogue while reserving judgment no matter what he says. Don't be afraid to pry, every so gently, into his mind and heart—to connect on a deeper and deeper level.
Play with his nipples, sucking on them then blowing on them for extra stimulation; explore his chest and abdomen with your hands; squeeze his behind; and caress his skin from top to toe, to make sure all his nerve endings are on fire for your touch.
Men may not be expressive, but they also have emotional needs. They look for comforting companionship, affection, emotional security, appreciation, compatibility, good level of understanding, independence of decision-making, and encouragement from their partners.
In fact, men who experience sadness or grief are more likely to channel those feelings into different emotions that are seen as more socially acceptable. For instance, a man who is experiencing sadness or depression might be more likely to act aggressively or get angry over something small, rather than cry.
Say something like, “I know you're having such a hard time with this,” or “I'm sorry you're hurting so much.” Also affirm that you hear what they're saying by saying it back to them in your own words.
Signs of depression in men may differ from signs of depression in women. Men are more likely to feel anger and aggressive feelings and to engage in substance abuse or risky behaviors. Increased awareness of the signs of depression in men can empower those with this condition to get help.
“I'm so sorry for the pain that you must be feeling right now; please know that I am here for you if you need a listening ear or shoulder to cry on.” “I'm sending warm wishes of peace and comfort to you in this difficult time.” “I wish I could take away your pain, but know that I'm here for you if you need me.”
Notice what he does and compliment him. When men do things around the house there are two purposes: one is to fix the problem, the second is to impress you. ...
Keep your priorities in order! Don't spend time with your man if it means that you're going to fail a class, forget to go to work, or otherwise hurt yourself in some way. He wants you to be happy and healthy above all else because then he knows you'll be able to give him your full attention when it really matters.
