How do you apologize to a girl you hurt through text?
Keep the focus of your apology on her not yourself.
Don't make your apology about yourself. Instead, talk about how you've affected negatively them and how much you regret it. For example, try messaging, “I know I hurt your feelings and I'm so sorry” instead of “I didn't mean to hurt your feelings.”
I'm so sorry that I hurt you. I'm sending you this apology message in a card to let you know that I love everything about you, for always, every single day. I want nothing more than for you to forgive me so that I can whisper in your ear how much I love you. The perfect couple love, laugh, fight and trust.
You Messed It Up? How To Say Sorry To A Woman Over Text!
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What is the best sorry message?
Sorry, there really is no excuse for what I did. I promise I didn't have any bad intentions and can only apologise. This is completely and totally my fault, I'm sorry. I feel horrible and never meant to upset you, please accept my most sincere apology.
I'm asking for your forgiveness and I promise to do better going forward. Hey babe, I totally lost my temper last night and I'm so sorry. It doesn't justify what I said or did. I just want you to know that I know I messed up and I'm going to talk to a professional about it so it never happens again.
I feel sorry for not being there for you and with you when you needed me most. I regret it so much, but I promise to always be there for you. I still cannot bring myself to understand what was going through my mind the moment I lied to you. Please accept my apology, and I will never do it again.
Acknowledge the offense. Take responsibility for the offense, whether it was a physical or psychological harm, and confirm that your behavior was not acceptable. ...
Be heartfelt and genuine. Look her in the eye and tell her you feel awful about making her upset. Keep any sarcasm from your tone, too. You never want to downplay an apology by saying: “I don't think I said/did anything wrong, but I'm sorry you're taking it the wrong way.”
A clear "I'm sorry" statement. An expression of regret for what happened. An acknowledgment that social norms or expectations were violated. An empathy statement acknowledging the full impact of our actions on the other person. A request for forgiveness.
Don't just say: “I'm sorry you got hurt.” That's not owning up to your actions. Instead say: “I'm sorry I called you naïve” or “I'm sorry I shoved past you.” Be specific about your actions and why you are apologizing for your behavior. Even more importantly, don't project your actions as someone else's fault.
For example, you could say: "I'm sorry that I snapped at you yesterday. I feel embarrassed and ashamed by the way I acted." Your words need to be sincere and authentic . Be honest with yourself, and with the other person, about why you want to apologize.
Talk about movies, music, or TV; tell her funny stories; send memes that you think will make her laugh—anything that's not too serious. You can even tease her a little or lightly make fun of yourself as long as you don't come off as mean-spirited or self-pitying.