According to sex and dating coach Myisha Battle, M.S., it's totally fine to reject someone over text if you've only gone on a date or two and your primary mode of communication has been through text.
You should be polite and not personally attack them. Saying, “I just don't find you very attractive or interesting. I could never see myself having sex with you.” is going to enrage quite a few men. “I had a lot of fun on our date but I don't feel that chemistry with you.”
A girl can change her mind after rejecting a guy if he behaves in an attractive and confident manner. Additionally, if the circumstances change and she's now ready, available and open to dating, there's a chance that she changes her mind about rejecting a guy.
She had probably decided that there was nothing else about the guy that really attracted her… personality, skills, ambition, plans…all of the things that make someone a complete person who can also be “nice” as one small part of who he is. She might feel somewhat bad if he was obviously hurt.
I've enjoyed hanging out with you, but I think we're looking for different things. I wish you the absolute best. It's been really nice chatting with you, but I've decided to take a break from dating for the time being. I wish you nothing but the best.
How do you make him miss you by not contacting him?
The best way to make a guy miss you is to pull away. Refrain from texting or calling him for the smallest things. If you reach out to him constantly, he does not have any chance to miss you. Instead, give your special person a reason and some time to miss you.
Just be direct and polite! Try: “I really appreciate your interest and openness, but I'm not able to reciprocate it. I know it may be hard to hear, but I'm not interested in moving forward.”
Respect and accept their decision. Put yourself in their shoes: if you'd just rejected someone and they kept trying to ask you out you'd wonder why they didn't get the message the first time.
How do I flirt with my guy friend without being obvious?
Make eye contact with him.
This will show that you're engaged and really listening to what he has to say. Listening to him, and showing that you're interested, is an easy way to flirt without making it extremely obvious. Be prepared to make a lot of eye contact, especially if you haven't talked to the guy yet.
Key points. Romantic rejection stimulates parts of the brain associated with motivation, reward, addiction, and cravings. Being romantically rejected can be a familiar feeling that mirrors one's childhood, leading that person to seek out more of the same.
This is one of the most common reasons why girls reject you. If she feels like she can't trust you or talk intimately with you then she'll keep her distance and prevent any kind of interaction with you.
