Confidence is key when it comes to flirting and attraction. Men chase after confidence. If they feel the person they are dating is confident about themselves, they like it. Show them that you are confident in your work, life choices, personal growth, self-improvement, or any other area you decide to pursue.
The chase helps men realize how important the girl is
So if you're too easy to get, he may wonder if he deserves someone better. But don't let this sway you from acting on how you truly feel. If you do end up kissing him on the first date or even having sex with him, just don't worry about it.
He starts to miss you
What happens when you stop chasing a man? He starts to miss you. No more frequent random calls or text messages to catch his attention, and he starts to miss them. He will figure out he enjoyed the attention you gave him and the feeling that somebody out there cared for him.
Ignoring a guy could make him want you more and it is the oldest trick in the book. It may sound counterintuitive, but it can be an effective way to get his attention and make him take notice of you. But there is a catch it can backfire resulting in him pulling away if you did not do it the right way.
Generally, men love chasing a woman who they feel is worth chasing. This may mean different to different men, but most find a good-looking and intelligent woman attractive. They also chase a woman who believes in herself and has a hint of mystique in her.
The chase is when a man subconsciously forms his initial emotional attachment for you. But if you chase him (or you're too nice, too accommodating, too available or you have sex with him too soon), you take over his role as the suitor and he will lose his interest in you and his motivation for the chase.
He'll stand close to you. He might place his hands on you casually, like touching your arm or your shoulder when laughing at a joke. “A guy who holds your hand or puts his arm around you is showing interest. We don't tend to touch people we don't like, so touch can be an indication of attraction.”
If she expressly states that she isn't interested, I leave her alone. All in all, don't directly chase her for more than two weeks. If not, it can turn into harassment.
If your guy is going out of his way to do things for you, it's a clear sign that he has fallen for you. He'll go out of his way to make sure you're comfortable and happy, even if it means making a few sacrifices himself. He'll also go out of his way to spend time with you and get to know you better.
We want to find reasons and proof that they like us — even when they don't exist. The more we do this, the more we become invested and entrenched in the fantasy. Over time, we rationalise our effort is due to immense feelings of attraction.
His priorities may have changed, or he may have never been serious about you in the first place. However, excessive neediness, expectations, possessiveness, or an attempt to control his actions could make him lose interest.
Nothing has changed in the time you've been chasing him. If he's still giving you mixed signals, leading you on, and refusing to commit to you, then you're probably wasting your time with him.
“Give him some space to pursue you, you can show interest that's fine but you have to give him the space to pursue you, stop initiating text messages, stop initiating plans,” Bendory says. Let your partner put in the work because if you don't then you'll be the one making all the effort in the relationship.
Heterosexual men tend to be attracted to women who have a youthful appearance and exhibit features such as a symmetrical face, full breasts, full lips, and a low waist–hip ratio.
Men prefer a woman who can stay calm and relaxed. Beauty is more than make-up and a fancy haircut. Men find women more attractive when they are neat and clean. Men find women who smell nice, who have clean hair and hydrated skin more attractive than a face perfectly covered in makeup.