If a guy's into you, you'll make him nervous. He'll get goose bumps or a rapidly beating heart just from being around you. Look for signs like unexplained laughter, sweaty palms and fidgeting. Guys always want to be in control of their emotions—we like to be in charge.
Overwhelming feelings make him nervous trying to impress you
Even if they feel confident and sure of themselves in other situations, it can be difficult to express those feelings when they have a crush on someone. So, it's natural for guys to act nervous around someone special.
When a man is nervous around a woman, it could be a sign he really likes you. Men get nervous around women they have feelings for, some of them just know how to hide it. One of the ways to tell that he feels a bit uneasy is by how much he compliments you.
He'll stand close to you. He might place his hands on you casually, like touching your arm or your shoulder when laughing at a joke. “A guy who holds your hand or puts his arm around you is showing interest. We don't tend to touch people we don't like, so touch can be an indication of attraction.”
In general, he just seems to be energetically drawn to you in the room—as if his focus, body language, and general energy all just seem to be kind of focused on you. Even when he's off talking to someone else, there still seems to be the vibe that he's paying attention to you.
One of the signs a guy is nervous around you is when he is being restless. He will fidget around you and won't stay still. It could be because he is attracted to you or because he is hiding something from you. Men can get fidgety when they are guilty of doing something.
Hughes et al. found that nervousness was more evident when there was a perception of mutual attraction, compared with scenarios when a participant felt another person was attracted to them but did not reciprocate the feelings.
Very often the anxiety we feel around other people is a reflection of the way we perceive ourselves. Projection is a common defence mechanism which causes us to take aspects of ourselves (which we find uncomfortable and unsettling) and ascribe them to other people.
What Type of Girl Intimidates Guys? Many men will always be intimidated by a strong woman who knows what she wants or is successful and financially stable. However, some men can't move past their intimidation for these reasons: They are insecure about themselves and don't feel comfortable with a strong woman.
He Finds Reasons to Talk to You
When a guy likes you but is hiding it, he'll find reasons and excuses to talk to you. That way, he can use these instances as opportunities to get to know you better, but they're under the guise of him trying to get other information about a different topic.
A lot of guys chase you
You are always “fighting off” guys who try to DM you on social media or come up to you in bars all the time. He's even convinced your guy friends want you too. So, if he thinks he has a lot of competition, then he probably thinks you are out of his league.
Can you feel when someone is attracted to you? Yes. When someone feels you are an attractive person, some things come up between you that aren't there otherwise. The clues aren't always obvious, but you can see some of them by paying attention.
If someone smiles a lot when they look at you and connects eye contact with smiling, it is usually because they find you attractive. They might also make fun of you and tease you, or try to make you laugh. If someone's into you, you make them nervous. Their heart will beat rapidly from being around you.
Smiles and sparks
You will often witness a spark in their eyes when they are looking at you or having a conversation with you. They will smile at you as if you are art personified. You can tell if someone likes you if you can sense them looking at you even when you are pretending not to notice.
Whether a guy is super-shy or not, it doesn't mean that he can't express his feelings for you at all. Shy guys have a different way of expressing their love and adoration. They are not too obvious, boisterous, or showy about it. Most of the time, you won't even get to know about it until a long time.
One of the obvious reasons why a guy may ignore or act disinterested in you is because he feels you are too good for him. He lacks the confidence to approach you or share his feelings with you, fearing you might reject him. He feels that sharing his true feelings might ruin your friendship with him.
If a boy really has a crush on you, then he'll be likely to give you all of his attention. He'll turn his body toward you, make eye contact, and won't look around for his other friends or text them during your conversation (unless he uses his phone as a crutch because he's nervous).
A woman's physical attractiveness, good nature, and emotional intelligence make a man think about her. What do men look for in a woman physically? Though every person has different preferences, men are predominantly attracted to women with a wider waist to hips ratio, healthy hair, and a bright smile.
If you are trying to seem more intimidating, keep your body still and move deliberately. This type of body language signals assertiveness. Look well-groomed. Taking good care of your clothing and personal hygiene, and generally maintaining a good, clean appearance, helps convey a sense of assertiveness and confidence.
He probably feels unsure of himself around you, maybe because he is intimidated by you or is interested in you. If you are interested in him, you could ask what you could do to make him feel more comfortable. Sounds like you definitely have the upper hand.