Beware of getting too worked up with a Leo—you simply won't win the argument that way. They are passionate and creative, which means they have no issues thinking up rebuttals on the fly. The best way to argue with a Leo is to learn how to say less and get them talking more. Ask them questions and watch their responses.
When there's a fight going on, Leo processes things in their head before speaking them out with other people, says Holmes. “They also try to anticipate people's needs so they don't have to have conflict,” she adds. Plus, when Leos know they've done something wrong, they're usually quick to apologize.
Leos love drama. They only argue with others because they love to do so, and it amuses them. For them, arguing is an interesting way to engage with others. Arguing is their way of poking fun at their friends, but they don't realize that most people find arguments to be tiring.
Leos are fierce, dramatic and can be your biggest opponents when it comes to a disagreement. Even if the matter can be resolved calmly, Leos will look for a way to glorify and intensify it, especially if you've hit a soft or vulnerable spot. They can use verbal slangs, accusations or even cross boundaries.
Leo's Most Toxic Match: Scorpio.
Being the fieriest of the fire signs, Leos are a more flared version of Aries. They will express their anger in the loudest ways, will throw tantrums, call you names and say things that they know will hit you the worst.
"Leos will often pretend that things don't stress them out, but they totally do," says Gat. "They're kind of similar to Aries in that once they become irritated, anything can throw them over the edge, but they're also kind of similar to Cancers in that they really like to nurture people.
Leos can hold a grudge forever. They will definitely let you know that they don't want you in their life. However, if you can't take the hint or if you hurt them really bad, they will straight away push you out of their lives.
Loyal to a fault
Once committed, they will stick by your side no matter what. They make for extremely encouraging and supportive partners. While dating Leos, make sure to reciprocate the love and enjoy romantic attention they shower you with.
Leo (July 23 – August 22)
This sign's worst fears are to under-perform and to let people (including themselves) down. Their personal identity, including their confidence level, tends to be located entirely outside themselves. They take in other people's opinions as their own. But this can be a valuable lesson for Leo.
Leos believe that they know best and people will only gain if they pay heed to their words. The zodiac's tendency to be controlling is more apparent when they want to love and attention (which is always, really). If they find that people are not being attentive to them, they are likely to let their bossy self shine.
Once they've got the blessing of their squad, they can approach conflict with confidence. As a fire sign, Leo has no problem handling not only their conflicts but also the conflicts of others.
"Leo is a proud sign," she says. "If their partner does something to make them look dumb, especially publicly, this is unforgivable for them." As a fixed sign, Leo also values loyalty. So cheating or any other sort of betrayal will wound both their heart and their ego.
The primary sign Leos find it difficult in getting along with is Taurus. Taurus moves at a steadier speed than Leo making it difficult for the Bull to pause and rest, which causes disappointments between the two. The second sign Leos might battle with is Scorpio.
Leo will value the continual support from their family because he's still a total child at heart. Perhaps literally, keeping a diary is healthy for a Leo's heart. They express their emotions while writing in a diary in a disciplined manner as they think about how they're coping with their breakup.
A Leo's initial reaction to an unexpected split is often complete shock that someone could lose interest in them, followed by devastating anguish. During a breakup, Leos feel as if their sun has been eclipsed. It's a totally heart-wrenching experience, and these lions aren't afraid to showcase their suffering.
Give them a chance to cool off.
If you've upset a Leo so much that an apology is in order, give them a chance to cool down first. A Leo's fiery temperament makes it very difficult to approach them immediately after they've been angered. Once they calm down a bit, Leos think more clearly and logically.
While all the fire signs have a fierce temper, it is Leo that holds the longest grudges and remains angry. Once their pride is hurt, they will not forgive you, or forget the way they were insulted. This sign has a huge ego, and is often fuelled by that to behave the way it does.
Leos tend to gravitate towards fellow fixed signs, Scorpio and Aquarius. Scorpios understand Leo's need for loyalty, and they both crave a lot of intensity when they're dating someone. Scorpio is very black and white about who they want to get to know and let into their life, and Leo usually feels the same.
Leos are emotional
While most Leos you know may pretend to be tough and rigid, they are emotional from the inside. A bad argument with their loved ones, and their heart will pound. They will act strong in front of the world but deep down they are extremely emotional people.
LEO (July 23 - August 22)
Leo calms down when Leo wants to calm down. In other words, being hyped and overwrought is part and parcel to being Leo, so it's all part of the act; calm them down by applauding them, no matter how awful they get.
They are very decisive, so it is hard to change their mind if they are set on seeking revenge. If someone takes a person or thing that is dear to them, Leos will not stop at anything until they get their things back and will also stab you by drawing you towards their trap.
Leo turn ons
The sound of applause. I say this literally, because to be applauded is the ultimate in terms of positive attention, but, really, any compliments, flattery, or positive attention makes Leo happy. You're a big proud lion at heart, and you love to be loved.
Being clingy is a surefire way to drive a Leo man away.
He'll appreciate that you let him do his own thing, and he might even miss spending time with you. This is also a great way to show off your independence and maturity.