If she doesn't want to talk, it's probably for a reason.
She may feel betrayed, angry, or hurt and she might need to work through some things. Virgos can be notoriously private, so don't try for a conversation until she's ready to talk or she may push away even more.
The Virgo man fears rejection, and this means that regardless of who ended the relationship if there is to be a second chance, it will be the woman who must face rejection. However, getting this guy back can be a mind game that's likely to be difficult.
Just like their fellow Cancers, they're the passive-aggressive type of angry. They're keeping their anger sulking, they're hiding and ignoring. These people don't like confronting others because they'd rather abandon their anger and not let it out on others, as they can feel burdened by this.
Virgos find it annoying to be around superficial and loud people, especially those who do not think before they speak. Virgos need their personal space, even when among the crowd. You do not want to be the center of attention. That is primarily the reason why you do not like hot colors such as red.
Virgos don't like to end relationships, so he'll try to motivate you to end it. He won't hug you, kiss you, or say “I love you”—instead, he'll try to push you to your limit. If he isn't treating you with love and respect, he's probably trying to convince you to end things.
Virgos have a high tolerance for being ignored.
Introverted and independent, they may not even notice you're ignoring them. They'll go about their day as if nothing's the matter—and they're not even trying to be mean!
A Virgo man may pull away when he's feeling undervalued or unappreciated. This is a good reason why he may be pulling away. A Virgo man may need to feel like he's valued and appreciated in order to feel happy and fulfilled.
Virgos are a practical and straightforward with zero tolerance for faff or unnecessary flamboyance. When it comes to relationships, they hate mind games and withholding of emotions. It drives them nuts to make assumptions and would much rather have you be straight with them.
Be open to lots of communication. Ruled by Mercury, Virgo men will miss someone they can talk to. If you make communication particularly interesting for them, they'll want to express themselves more openly. Don't be afraid to send messages throughout the day telling him about what's happening with you.
Virgos may seem very stern but they have a soft side to them. Although they have a lot to express, they just hold back due to the fear of exposing their vulnerability. Therefore, all they need is a touch of care and affection that might just open them up.
If you're ignoring him, he likely won't take it as a sign to pursue you more. Instead, he'll likely interpret as a signal that you're not into him, and he will want to avoid you so he can skip potentially being rejected. Virgo guys don't like to be vulnerable and go out on a limb in dating.
Virgo souls do not go through anxious attachment but are perfectionists and have a lot of pride. They do not give their trust easily and therefore they will monitor their ex just to know if they have immediately jumped into another relationship or not.
Loyalty is the Code
In a relationship, a Virgo man is sworn to give all his and more not by promise but because that's how he functions. He gets really heartbroken when he realizes that his partner is not as committed or loyal to him as it should be.
A virgo will scan the person upside down, inside out and then probably let the spark within them arise. If they do feel the spark, then it's subtle. They have a very casual approach and conversation with the subject, pretending like nothing is going on.
Lastly, a selfish approach to decision-making can be a red flag that a Virgo man is using you. If he consistently makes decisions based primarily on his own needs or desires without considering your feelings or well-being, this can be a sign that he is not genuinely interested in a partnership.
03/8Virgo. They are extremely careful about what they express in front of others. They prefer to keep to themselves and not show their vulnerable side. Their fear of getting hurt is so strong that they will prefer staying alone over getting heartbroken.
Virgos are emotionally distant and difficult to read.
They will share their feelings once they're comfortable with you. The best thing you can do is give them time to get to know you. Don't push them or force them to tell you how they're feeling or they may close off even more.
A huge turn-on would be lots of intellectual stimulation and foreplay where you're offering them lots of attention. Poor hygiene can be a real turn-off for Virgos, as they shun all things that may seem unsanitary. So load up on breath mints and some great perfume!
Virgo. You may handle rejection well but your suffering inside you is difficult to know. You carry on in your life as if nothing has happened, but you cry with silent tears from inside. You may face rejection quite often in life as you are a perfectionist and you have high standards that are difficult to attain.
Virgo: Messiness
People with this zodiac sign are all about order and organization. They like to have everything in its place and get easily frustrated when things are too chaotic or out of control. If someone is too messy and careless, this will be a major turn-off for a Virgo.