I'm getting excited to see you soon. Thinking of you is really turning me on right now. I love having your scent on my pillow. This bed is so empty without you in it. You really do know how to turn me on…?
Touch the person on the arm to show them you're interested.
When you're talking with someone, touching their elbow, shoulder, or arm is a simple way to start physical contact. It only needs to last 1 or 2 seconds. Touch lightly so you're not putting too much pressure on the other person.
Innocent flirting should be focused on lighthearted topics and playful banter. Avoid discussing serious or controversial issues, and steer clear of overly deep personal questions. The goal is to create a fun and friendly atmosphere that allows both parties to feel at ease and enjoy the interaction.
You can't go wrong with a classic winky face emoji. Whether you're testing the waters or moving forward with full flirty force, sprinkling a winky emoji here and there is guaranteed to signal to your crush that you're flirting hard.
FLIRTY FIRST TEXT: “I see that you're into [hobby/interest]. What do you love most about it?” WHY IT'S GOOD: This is a great first message on a dating-app because everyone's favorite subject is themselves. We all love to talk about our passions and hobbies, so it's very likely to kick-start a stimulating conversation.
Playfully teasing him will make him blush a little from embarrassment. Just don't say anything that's too mean, or else you'll hurt his feelings. Sending flirty, playful messages is a great way to turn him on and make him blush.
Make sure that they know you're teasing, being ironic, or sarcastic by adding in an emoji or an LOL—over text, it can be hard to tell whether or not someone's being serious. Tease them gently about something they're good at/confident about.
Smile and make eye contact when you see the person you like.
This will show that you're confident and self-assured, and it will also show your crush that you noticed them. If you notice your crush is looking at you, make eye contact and hold their gaze for a few seconds, then smile and look away.
Physical flirts are big on touching. They'll lean into you, adjust their stance toward you, play with their hair or put focus on their mouth—this style of flirting is sexually charged, to say the least.
There are also tons of ways to cue your interest in someone without touch — lean in or face your body towards theirs when chatting, hold eye contact (see below), smile, or laugh when they say something funny.
