Loving Allah (ʿazza wa jall) can only be achieved when you prefer Him over everything else. You must love Him more than you love your parents, children, spouse, friends and wealth.
“And certainly, We shall test you with something of fear, hunger, loss of wealth, lives and fruits, but give glad tidings to As-Sabirun (the patient). Who, when afflicted with calamity, say: “Truly! To Allah we belong and truly, to Him we shall return.”
The Prophet Muhammad (pbuh) said: “No person suffers any anxiety or grief and says this supplication, but Allah will take away his sorrow and grief, and give him in their stead joy. Having said that, however, Muslims are not immune to the feeling of grief or depression.
These include: firm belief (īmān), knowledge of Allah (maʿrifah), sincerity (ikhlāṣ), piety and mindfulness (taqwā), trust in Allah (tawakkul), hope (rajā'), fear (khawf), gratitude (shukr), patience (ṣabr), love (ḥubb), yearning for Allah (shawq) and certainty (yaqīn).
Try to relax in your prayer and forget everything that could bother you in life. And remember, you're with Allah now and He deserves your full attention. Maintain good manners. Never lie or steal, be nice to the people around you, be gracious towards your parents, keep your promises, always forgive and be nice.
"What if Allah loves the heart you broke? You can not know... If you knew, you would be terrified, you wouldn't dare to touch that heart!"
O Prophet, say to the prisoners in your hands, “If Allah knows any goodness in your hearts, He will give you something better than what has been taken from you, and will forgive you. Allah is Most-Forgiving, Very-Merciful.”
”O Allah! I ask You for Your Love and the love of those who love You, and deeds which will cause me to attain Your Love. O Allah! Make Your Love dearer to me than myself, my family and the cold water” ”اللهم إني أسألك حبك، وحب من يحبك، والعمل الذي يبلغني حبك، اللهم اجعل …
2) Quran verse on attaining Allah's love
To attain a fellow human being's love, we generally do the things that he or she loves and avoid that which he or she hates. Allah's love is far greater than the love any human being can manifest; in fact, it is the greatest love that we can attain.
Generally, Muslims are told not to meet their spouse before marriage and are condemned from questioning this mentality. In truth, Islam teaches us love is kind, nourishing and pure. Meeting a spouse before marriage is wholly permitted and allowed if done with the right intentions and appropriately.
Send salutations upon him (pbuh)
Sending peace and blessings upon him will increase our love for Rasul Allah. A simple formula is to say “Allah humma sallee 'ala Muhammad”. The Prophet Muhammad (pbuh) said: “Whoever sends blessings upon me, Allah will send blessings upon him tenfold”.
What Allah Wants From You. It has already been established what Allah wants for you. He wants you to make it to paradise. In fact, paradise is guaranteed for the one who obeys the commands of Allah, and by extension, those of the Prophet (peace be upon him).
Those with hardened hearts are condemned by Allah ('azza wa jall): “So is one whose heart Allah has opened up for Islam and he is upon a light from his Lord (like one whose heart rejects it)? Then woe to those whose hearts are too hard to remember Allah. They have clearly lost their way” (39:22).
Trusting in God; it is important that we first get to know Him as best we can. So, learn, study and reflect on the many names and attributes of Allah (SWT). The best way to do this is to set aside time regularly to read the Qur'an and learn more about the Sunnah.
However , the best of weep and cry is fear of God in respect of him The Almighty Allah. This kind of weep and cry cleanse the soul from pressure and sorrow together with sins. It releases negative energy and the tears remove the harm and filth.
Allah does not like those who transgress. For example, when someone hits you, you have a rights to hit back But someone hits you and you kill him, or someone hits you once, and you hit him twice that is transgression.
We all experience difficulties in our life's and as Muslims we should know that this is a test from Allah. In fact that this is something Muslims firmly believe in, that going through difficult times is inevitable.
Establishing a strong connection with Allah requires proactive steps to nurture our faith. Regular prayer and recitation of the Quran serve as a reminder of our purpose in life and the values and principles that we should strive to uphold.