How do you make a guy kiss you when you're not dating?
Ask him to kiss you in a playful way.
Move a little closer and try saying something like: “So… are you gonna kiss me now, or what?” “Just wanted to say that it's OK with me if you wanted to kiss me… that's all…” “Beating around the bush is fun and all, but I think it'd be even better if you just kissed me.”
A good way to tell if a guy wants to kiss you is to pay attention to where he's looking. If he's looking at your lips or staring into your eyes, he's probably thinking about kissing you. He may even comment on your lips while he's looking at them. If he compliments your lips, or your eyes, he's ready for the kiss.
He tries to stay in close physical proximity to you
If your man actively puts in the effort to be physically close to you, it's a tell-tale sign that you turn him on, big time. If you've seen him ensure that he's sitting right beside you or standing next to you most of the time, he is attracted to you.
Try this: Lean towards someone and offer them your cheek. Give them eye contact while tapping your cheek. If your partner responds to that, try tapping on other parts of your face or body. Write your request on a piece of paper and pass it on a note.
How do you make a guy kiss you without telling him to?
Flirt with your eyes.
One way to clue him in on the fact that you want a kiss is to look him deep in the eyes, slowly drop your gaze to his lips, and then move them back up to his eyes. If the guy catches on, this is his cue to kiss you. If not, then try again a little later.
During the passionate kiss, use your hands to hold your partner and make them feel desired. Caress, squeeze, or grip your partner's face, lower back, upper back, chest, or neck with varying levels of pressure to stimulate these erogenous zones.
Touch his hair or face to make him know that you are interested. Gently touch his nose with your pointer finger and smile at him. You can even try hugging him first, and while you're still hugging him, lean back and go in for the kiss. This creates a connection from the very moment you hug.
Make sure your lips aren't dry or cracked. Regular lip scrubs, especially during the winter, can help you avoid chapped and peeling lips. Keep lip balm on hand for a pre-kiss touch-up. Rely on a breath mint or piece of gum to keep your mouth feeling (and tasting) fresh.
What makes him want to kiss a woman is the physical and/or emotional attraction he feels toward her. On the other hand, there's also the desire to explore that attraction. Primarily, a man will feel attracted to the physical appearance first, then move on to try to gather more information about a woman.
First, keep your lips soft and slightly opened, in a gently inviting and receptive way. Don't press them together tightly, but also avoid opening them too wide. Drooling and too much saliva is almost always a turn-off for men and women. On the other hand, some women and men like steamy, sloppy, wet kissing.
"When kissing, it should feel as if the two of you are focused on each other and the rest of the world blurs around you." In other words, a good kiss gets you completely lost, you're unsure what end is up, your knees go weak, your whole body goes limp, and every concern you had before you locked lips is gone.
