===> Let's make a distinction between flirting, seductiveness, and cybersex. Flirting is the twinkle and grin you give to someone, in person; it's just playful and has no intent beyond that grin. Seductiveness is action that announces sexual intent, even enticement.
Seduction, in law, refers to an act by which a person entices another to have unlawful sexual intercourse with them by means of persuasions, promises, flattery or bribes without using any physical force or violence.
Flirting can be subtle and indirect, so sometimes it's hard to decipher whether or not someone is expressing interest. Clues to spot flirting are body language, such as smiling, leaning forward, and touching, and verbal cues such as compliments or references to being available.
Seduction, seen negatively, involves temptation and enticement, often sexual in nature, to lead someone astray into a behavioural choice they would not have made if they were not in a state of sexual arousal.
Seduction is about maintaining mystery, playing with words, being creative and giving him everything bit by bit. It's also about giving out hits with your body language. It's a powerful tool to use with the right words. A subtle tough, locking eyes, playing with your hair, being spontaneous - all of it will seduce him.
Artfully bringing another to sexually desire oneself is a particular form of manipulating another's motives, and it is seduction in the broad sense that we initially identified.
In a research project, Jeffrey Hall, Assistant Professor of Communication Studies at the University of Kansas defined five flirting styles; playful, traditional, physical, sincere and polite.
Physical flirting involves using touch or body language to express attraction and create a sense of intimacy. Examples include playful touches, hugs, or leaning in closer during conversations. This form of flirting can be very effective when used appropriately and with respect for boundaries.
Being seductive requires the right body language and personality. Strive to make eye contact and add subtle touch to situations. Listen to what the other person says and make them feel special. In terms of your outfit, opt for clothing that flatters your body and attracts some attention.
Seduction is primarily conveyed through nonverbal cues.
A study shows that positive facial expressions, particularly involving the mouth, are interpreted as seductive—such as a sly smile. According to research, touch—such as a light brushing of the hand—is very important to conveying sexual interest.
He tried to seduce her. She was seduced by an older man. The other team seduced him with a better offer.
The Natural seducer is the one who has somehow retained the childhood traits. They have an innocent quality about them which makes them irresistible. Like a child they are impish, vulnerable and defenseless, open and spontaneous. They make their audience lower their guards because they appear so guileless and fresh.
Attraction is a moment, seduction is a process. Attraction draws attention, seduction keeps attention. In times when demand for talent is high (with periods of scarcity, as we are beginning to see) attraction alone is a plan of failure, and seduction is the only way you can win.
Sincere. This is the most common flirting style, and that's probably for the best. Sincere flirts are direct and honest in their interest, and they aim to build emotional connections from the beginning. They'll strike up a conversation about the book you're reading.
Deliberately Touching Someone
Yet, frequently and purposely touching someone in a provocative way–like caressing their hand or giving them a tight and lingering hug–is inappropriate flirting, and implies a romantic/sexual interest, particularly when there's attraction between either party.
Teasing is one of the biggest ways that a man can flirt with you. If he makes fun of you lightly for your clothes, for how you walk, how you laugh, or for any of the other things about you that he actually just thinks are really adorable, then he's definitely flirting with you.
Innocent flirting is a lighthearted and playful form of social interaction that involves casual, friendly banter, compliments, and teasing without any serious intent or expectation to pursue a romantic or sexual relationship.
Subtle flirting involves using discreet, understated gestures or verbal cues to signal interest and attraction without being overt or aggressive. Subtle flirting can help create intrigue and maintain a sense of mystery during the early stages of a flirtatious interaction.
A seductress is a woman who seduces someone. She was typecast as a self-confident seductress. Synonyms: temptress, siren, vamp [informal], femme fatale More Synonyms of seductress.