Men: If a woman seems focused on your face and chest, she sees romantic potential. A gaze that wanders from your chest to your hips to your legs reveals that she's interested in you—but it could either friendship or something more intimate.
Smiling and looking at you often is a surefire sign of attraction. When a girl is attracted to you, she'll look at you appreciatively and consciously—hoping you'll notice rather than sneaking glances without really thinking about it. She'll also try to meet your gaze and make eye contact while smiling at you.
When you catch a guy staring at your chest, make a sound to indicate that you know what he's doing and you don't appreciate it. Clear your throat loud enough for him to hear you and don't continue the conversation until he looks up at your eyes.
You can directly confront your co-worker.
Driver noted there is no right or wrong answer, but if you feel comfortable being direct, you can also simply say, “The way that you're looking at me makes me feel uncomfortable. I'd appreciate it if you'd look at my eyes and not other parts of my body.”
If a woman touches your chest then this means she thinks she's close enough to be in your personal space - unless you're coming hard on her and she's pushing you away of course. Still, don't get fooled by the gesture alone. She can touch your chest and still think of you as a friend.
Put your hands around her waist from behind.
Touch her gently so you don't startle her. If you two get really comfortable she might even let you slide your hand down a little lower. Once she's comfortable with you putting your hands on her waist, grab her and swing her around. Then, she'll be facing you.
What does this mean? He's probably checking you out. This isn't necessarily special, but it does suggest he finds you attractive. You could use this as an opportunity to flirt - for example, if you notice him looking at your chest you could say something like “like what you see?” in a flirty fashion.
Tilt your head forward slightly. This works on most people depending on what you look like. Squint your eyes and push your eyebrows together then down and stare a while to confuse them. Push your lower jaw forward and either leave your mouth normal or frown.
He's Staring at You
If you notice he is making more eye contact with you or you catch a guy staring at you, he is probably attracted to you. He may be enthralled by your good looks and may be fantasizing about kissing you. Perhaps he stares at you and smiles; that could mean he likes you, too.
Some studies have found that up to 94% of people report that they have experienced the feeling of eyes upon them and turned around to find out they were indeed being watched.
People often stare out of curiosity. We are all curious when we see something new or someone different. Although it can make us feel uncomfortable, people often do this by accident, without meaning to. Not everyone will have met or seen someone who has a visible difference before.
The visual cortex is the main contributor. This is a large area at the back of the brain, which supports many important aspects of sight. But other areas, such as the amygdala, which registers threats, must also be involved with gaze detection somehow. Humans are sensitive to the gaze of others.
Making Eye Contact
If she looks at you and then instantly turns away, it may be because she is shy or doesn't want to get caught looking at you. If she looks back at you and smiles, that's an invitation for you to go introduce yourself.
While in a conversation with someone you're interested in, look in their left eye for one second. Then, shift your gaze to their lips. After 1.5 to 2 seconds, bring your gaze up and look into their right eye.
This means you should hold eye contact between 50%–70% of the time. Maintain this amount of eye contact both while you are talking and while you are listening.
Let her be the first to break eye contact.
This will communicate that you are interested in speaking to her. Keep smiling with open body language so she knows this is a friendly look, not a threatening stare. The longer she maintains eye contact, the more likely it is that she may be interested in meeting you.
Your potential love interest stares at you while you are in the middle of something or talking to someone. He or she may look away when you catch them staring at you, or might hold eye contact as if they're trying to memorize your features.
If someone has a crush on you, there's a fairly good chance they'll be glancing at you more often than others. They might stare at you when they think you aren't noticing and might even look away if you catch them. Such sneaking glances at you may indicate they like you as well.
Frequent And Playful Touching
Small touches and gestures can be a good sign that a woman likes you. If she playfully pats your arm or rubs against you while you are sitting down, it could mean she wants to be closer to you. She also might want to hug you or be open to an invitation to be hugged.
Smiling at the other person, playing with your hair, and maintaining eye contact are great ways to flirt without physically touching them. If you do want to show your affection through a touch, try sitting close to them and giving a light touch on the arm or hand to start.