She's kind of mean to you
This is all about playful flirting, not actually being nasty. If she teases you a little bit, she is definitely into you.
Tease your crush just a little bit.
If you're on friendly terms with your crush, don't be afraid of teasing them a little as a way of flirting. Make sure that they know you're teasing, being ironic, or sarcastic by adding in an emoji or an LOL—over text, it can be hard to tell whether or not someone's being serious.
Don't respond much at all, or just laugh along
If someone teases you, you don't always have to come back with an entertaining line. Sometimes you won't be able to think of a good retort, or just won't feel like it. You can quickly smile or nod to acknowledge the comment, then move on with the conversation.
Notice if they're playful or flirty when talking to you.
Each person flirts in a slightly different way, but if your crush is being playful in a way that's funny and lighthearted, they're likely trying to get your attention and show their affection.
“If a man teases or makes fun of you that is a sign that he is completely comfortable around you,” says Flicker. He's also paid enough attention to “pick up on what you would be secure and insecure about.”
Tease you / try to make you laugh
Pay attention to see if he gently teases you, because this could mean he's attracted to you. Although, if he teases other girls, it might be a tactic he uses for flirting. If you're the only girl he teases or tries to be around, chances are he's interested.
Guys tease and make fun of girls they like because they want to be noticed. Contrary to popular belief, guys always seek attention from girls—especially the ones they like. Guys try to hide the fact that they like the girl by teasing her. In a way, it's still flirting.
Teasing is a playful and lighthearted form of flirting that involves joking or making fun of the other person in a good-natured way. Teasing can create a fun and flirty relaxed atmosphere and help both parties feel at ease, but it's essential to be mindful of boundaries and feelings.
Sometimes teasing is harmless and playful. Other times it can be used to hurt others. And even playful teasing can hit raw nerves or be misinterpreted, especially when kids struggle with social skills.
Playful flirting involves teasing and bantering with the other person in a lighthearted and fun way. It may involve making jokes or puns, using sarcasm, or engaging in witty banter. Playful flirting can help to create a relaxed and enjoyable atmosphere and can be a good way to break the ice.
“If someone secretly likes you, they may tilt their head as you speak, which is a sign of engagement,” Dr. Hafeez shares. They'll turn to you when you speak and will keep their body language open. “Their legs will be crossed in your direction and their arms won't be folded with 'closed' body language,” she adds.
Catching her staring at you is the biggest sign she has a crush. Look for other telltale cues like blushing, giggling, or making excuses to be together. Listen carefully to what she says—if she asks you about your crushes or talks about how she wants a boyfriend, she's dropping you some hints.
It's common for the bullying and hurtful comments to start as teasing and escalate from there. Boys who bully and relentlessly pick on girls continue to do so because they are getting a reaction that is favorable for them. Meaning, it is obviously the target is hurt and upset, feeling weak. This makes them feel better.
Men love women who are thoughtful, caring, loving, and kind. A woman who does little things for her man for no other reason other than that she loves him. A woman who makes him smile back whenever she smiles at him. A woman who radiates love and warmth from her heart.
Men who are attracted to you might even engage in more touch. If a man actively tries to touch you during your interaction, it may mean he wants to get closer to you or close the distance between you two.
Some men flirt because it makes them feel good about themselves when they are otherwise fairly insecure. In other words, he may be trying to get a positive or equal reaction from the other woman to endorse that he is desirable.
Look for signs in his body language like eye contact and leaning in towards you while talking. He'll also initiate more physical touch between you. Study his behavior, including the time between text responses and how jealous he seems when other guys are mentioned.
If a boy really has a crush on you, then he'll be likely to give you all of his attention. He'll turn his body toward you, make eye contact, and won't look around for his other friends or text them during your conversation (unless he uses his phone as a crutch because he's nervous).
If your crush knows you like them, they'll probably feel a lot more nervous than they were before they knew. Look for signs that your crush feels a little on edge when you're near them, such as talking too much to fill awkward silences, getting tongue-tied, or fidgeting while you're talking to them.