What happens in the weeks before death? Most people who are dying feel tired. They may want to sleep more often, or for longer periods. They may want to talk less, although some may want to talk more.
Weeks Before Death Symptoms
They may begin to sleep more often and for longer periods. They will start to refuse foods that are difficult to eat or digest, but eventually they will refuse all solid foods. Do not try to force them to eat, as it will only bring discomfort to them.
Physical, mental, and behavioral changes are common. In the week or two before death, the dying process speeds up. They may start being confused and periodically not making sense. Their bodily process may slow down or become erratic, but the person may also appear restless.
1 to 2 weeks before death, the person may feel tired and drained all the time, so much that they don't leave their bed. They could have: Different sleep-wake patterns. Little appetite and thirst.
The active stage of dying generally only lasts for about 3 days. The active stage is preceded by an approximately 3-week period of the pre-active dying stage. Though the active stage can be different for everyone, common symptoms include unresponsiveness and a significant drop in blood pressure.
Nearing the end of life
Everyone's experiences are different, but there are changes that sometimes happen shortly before a person dies. These include loss of consciousness, changes to skin colour, and changes to breathing.
There are three main stages of dying: the early stage, the middle stage, and the last stage. These are marked by various changes in responsiveness and functioning. However, it is important to keep mind that the timing of each stage and the symptoms experienced can vary from person to person.
The signs that indicate someone is close to death include loss of appetite, increased weakness, labored breathing, changes in urination, and swelling in extremities. Other end-of-life signs may include sleeping more, increased pain, and becoming less social.
The end-of-life period—when body systems shut down and death is imminent—typically lasts from a matter of days to a couple of weeks. Some patients die gently and tranquilly, while others seem to fight the inevitable. Reassuring your loved one it is okay to die can help both of you through this process.
Visual or auditory hallucinations are often part of the dying experience. The appearance of family members or loved ones who have died is common. These visions are considered normal. The dying may turn their focus to “another world” and talk to people or see things that others do not see.
Palliative and hospice experts refer to this as “rallying” or terminal lucidity and say it is a common occurrence but no one is sure why it happens. These bounce-backs generally last only a couple hours, but some go on for so long that the patients can take a break from a hospice for a few months.
Just before death some people become restless, agitated and confused. This is known as terminal restlessness. It often occurs within the last few days of life. Terminal restlessness can be caused by a range of things and sometimes calming drugs are needed.
Research suggests that even as your body transitions into unconsciousness, it's possible that you'll still be able to feel comforting touches from your loved ones and hear them speaking. Touch and hearing are the last senses to go when we die.
Sometimes the breathing may be fast, and at other times there may be long gaps between breaths. Breathing may be shallow or noisy. This, too, is due to blood circulation slowing down and a build up in the body's waste products. It is not painful or distressing for the person.
As organs begin to shut down, most people experience drowsiness and may gradually lose consciousness. Eventually the heart and lungs will stop working and the body dies.
The pre-active phase of dying usually occurs two to three weeks prior to death. During this time, patients experience symptoms such as: Increased periods of sleep and lethargy. Withdrawal from social interaction.
As a result of discontinuing eating, patients can die in as early as a few days. For most people, this period without food usually lasts about 10 days, but in rare instances, it can last several weeks.
The last days or hours of a person's life are sometimes called the terminal phase. This is when someone is "actively dying". Everyone's experience of dying is different, and some people will die suddenly or unexpectedly.
A dying person may try to hold on, despite prolonged discomfort, to be sure loved ones will be all right. Your permission can include saying goodbye, saying it's all right to go and reassuring your loved one you will be all right.
Signs that the body is actively shutting down are: abnormal breathing and longer space between breaths (Cheyne-Stokes breathing) noisy breathing. glassy eyes.
Your hospice team's goal is to help prepare you for some of the things that might occur close to the time of death of your loved one. We can never predict exactly when a terminally ill person will die. But we know when the time is getting close, by a combination of signs and symptoms.