Annoying people might violate various social norms, be incompatible with others, try too hard to make others laugh, or even take a phone call while in a quiet library.
wretch. noun. humorous someone who you do not like or who annoys you.
Social anxiety can quickly take control of your thoughts and make you feel irritable and on edge. The anxious brain tends to generate thoughts about worst-case scenarios, and in this case, anxiety can make you habitually question if you're annoying everyone around you.
Rubbing off on each other. Finding someone annoying can also come down to something called 'affective presence', a concept stemming from a body of research in psychology that suggests some people naturally make others feel relaxed, while others make people bristle – no matter what they do.
annoyance. noun. an·noy·ance ə-ˈnȯi-ən(t)s. : the act of annoying. : the feeling of being annoyed.
The study then describes the seven traits that can be used to determine if someone is difficult: callousness, grandiosity, aggressiveness, suspicion, manipulativeness, dominance and risk-taking.
The short answer: INFJ (Introverted-Intuitive-Feeling-Judgment) is the most complex Myers-Briggs Personality Type.
Solution: Fidgeting, having their feet pointed towards the door, and a not-so-subtle "back turned" away from you maneuver are all good signs that someone is annoyed by you or feeling uncomfortable in a conversation.
Sensitive to Rejection. People with ADHD are exquisitely sensitive to rejection and criticism. They can experience hopelessness and demoralization because they try to succeed by imitating the paths to success of people without ADHD, and then fail over and over again because the same paths don't work for them.
making you feel slightly angry: It's really annoying when a train is late and there's no explanation. He's got a really annoying laugh. It's annoying that we can't travel until Thursday, but at least the fare's cheaper then.
If everything annoys you all of the time, that's actually very normal, and the reason why probably has to do with your old friend, anxiety. "If someone is an anxious person, they're generally irritable and can feel thrown by things easily," says Andrea Bonior, PhD, clinical psychologist.
Other words for bothersome
annoying, irritating, irksome, vexing, vexatious, galling.
Misophonia is a disorder in which certain sounds trigger emotional or physiological responses that some might perceive as unreasonable given the circumstance. Those who have misophonia might describe it as when a sound “drives you crazy.” Their reactions can range from anger and annoyance to panic and the need to flee.
This ability of some people to completely annoy everyone for no apparent reason is a recognized scientific phenomenon. It's called "affective presence" and The Atlantic just investigated the subject in a fascinating article (hat tip to The Cut).
People who worry about rejection or being annoying may be victims of a self-fulfilling prophecy. Those who act entitled alienate others and build others' resentment toward them. A person who is in love with their own voice is likely to be very annoying.
They frequently try to outdo or one-up you
If you share something positive from your life, a friend dealing with jealousy might respond by sharing something similar, only bigger or better. In other words, you may notice a pattern of behavior where they not only imitate you, but also try to go one step farther.
They're never around in difficult times
So, being too busy, citing excuses, or flaking out on you every time you need help or support is one of the unmistakable signs your friend doesn't truly care about you.