While eating with a spoon, you should not make slurping noises while sipping and always ensure that you sip from the side of the spoon rather than the tip of it. Also, it is considered bad etiquette to hold the spoon in your fist or to point towards people using a spoon.
Once you've started eating your meal, your utensils should never touch the table. They should only rest on your plate. Remember this rule while dining, so your server can understand your utensil positions.
Prior to the adoption of the fork, the custom in Europe was for all food to be conveyed to the mouth by the right hand (using a spoon, a knife, or fingers). When the fork was adopted, it followed this rule; it was held in the left hand while cutting and then transferred to the right to eat.
Regarding the position of the cutlery on the table, to the right you will find the spoons and knives, always starting with the spoon on the far right, a small knife for starters (just to the side), and on the left, the traditional table knife (in both cases with the edges towards the inside of the table).
Spoons are held in your right hand and are used to eat foods like ice-cream, soups, broths, etc. While eating with a spoon, you should not make slurping noises while sipping and always ensure that you sip from the side of the spoon rather than the tip of it.
In accordance with US “cut-and-switch” etiquette, diners begin with the fork in their left hand and the knife in their right, but after they've cut whatever it is they're about to eat, the knife is put down and the fork is transferred to the right hand.
The forks should be placed to the left of the plate, with the salad fork on the outside. The dinner fork sits besides it, next to the dinner plate. The knife should go to the right of the dinner plate, with the blade facing in. If soup is being served, the soup spoon sits next to the knife, on the outside.
“Beginning to eat before everyone else is served is extremely rude,” Parker says. It's a long-standing rule that you should wait for everyone to have their food in front of them before digging in. In an ideal situation, the kitchen would prepare all the dishes to be ready at the same time.
The fork should always be facing the plate, so the knife can be used to scoop food into the fork when necessary. It's also polite to put down utensils in between each bite, so be sure to rest your knife and fork on your plate as you chew.
If there is a soup spoon, it should be placed to the right of the forks, with the napkin placed to the left of the soup spoon. If there is a salad plate, the napkin should be placed on top of the plate.
Use the fork with the tines facing down.
Hold the handle between your thumb and your middle, ring, and pinky fingers. Place your index finger at the end of the handle where it meets the base of the fork tines. Let the end of the handle rest in the crease of your palm.
Spoon your soup away from you in the bowl.
Spooning it away from you allows any soup that is going to dribble off the spoon to end up back in the bowl on its short journey back across the bowl, instead of on your shirt, blouse, or lap. It definitely helps reduce spills!
Table manners in Australia are Continental, meaning that the fork goes in the left hand and the knife goes in the right. In some cultures, it is considered polite to leave a little food on your plate, but Australia is not one of those cultures.
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And as in Ethiopia and India, it's considered rude to eat with the left hand in the Middle East. Make sure you know about these/hand gestures that are rude in other countries.
When the fork gradually came into European use, it, too, was brought to the mouth from only the right hand. This was the correct European way of eating, and European settlers brought it to America, where it remains the correct method.
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Because most people are right handed, they held the knife with their right hand, so instinctively we placed it on the right side of the plate. The concept of the spoon has existed almost as long as the knife; even if it was as simple as a bowl shaped item tied to a stick.
If you look in a normal mirror, everything that hits the mirror comes back to you the right way up in a straight line. If it goes into a spoon, which is concave – going inwards – the light comes back to you at an angle. The top of the spoon will reflect downwards and the bottom of the spoon will reflect upwards.
The shank is extended between your thumb, index, and middle finger. The hand is curved gently around the handle, and the tines are pointing upwards. No, you should not grip the fork tightly. It should rest gently in your hand, but it should be secure enough that it doesn't just fall out of your hand.
With so many table manners to keep track, keep these basic, but oh-so-important, table manners in mind as you eat: Chew with your mouth closed. Keep your smartphone off the table and set to silent or vibrate. Wait to check calls and texts until you are finished with the meal and away from the table.
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Ever since the 16th century there has been a taboo against pointing a knife at our faces. It is rude, of course, to point at anybody with a knife or a fork, or even a spoon; it is also very bad form to hold knife and fork in the fists so that they stand upright.