The deepest secret is that life is not a process of discovery, but a process of creation. You are not discovering yourself, but creating yourself anew. Seek therefore, not to find out Who You Are, but seek to determine Who You Want to Be.
The most common have to do with past lies, finances, romantic attraction, sexual behavior, and desire for someone other than your spouse or partner. Family secrets, like abuse and mental-health problems, are high on the list too.
To better understand the harms of secrecy, my colleagues and I first set out to understand what secrets people keep, and how often they keep them. We found that 97 percent of people have at least one secret at any given moment, and people have, on average, 13 secrets.
How to get someone to tell you their deepest darkest secret?
Invade Their Personal Space
This makes them feel more transparent and will often encourage them to dig a little deeper. This is good if you are trying to get someone to divulge secret information. The best way to get someone to tell the truth? Tell the truth yourself.
Most people have a dark secret they cannot share with their family or friends. Sometimes these situations have long passed, but they leave a dark mark on the conscience.
When you excel at what you do, and then help others, you are coping with life, and creating satisfaction-success. This process is the “greatest secret human power.” It is great because its use helps you realize your desires, as long as hurting others is not one of them.
To use the law of attraction, you must think about what you want, not what you want to avoid. The three steps of the law of attraction are asking, believing, and receiving.
If you don't like sharing information or letting other people know how you feel, you're secretive. Secretive people probably make the best spies. When a person is secretive, they seem mysterious because they don't reveal much about themselves.
