Gemini loves witty banter and is a master at the art of conversation. They light up when you show them your sense of humor or share an amazing story. Better yet, get them to tell you one of their own! You'll want to bring your best one-liners to the table, because Gemini is also an expert flirt and adores wordplay.
Things to say: "You are not your thoughts," "You make me laugh," or "What do you think of this idea?" Gemini is the curious intellectual of the zodiac, which is why they crave "great conversation and light-hearted fun," says Mesa.
Listen to them and engage them in conversation.
Being natural chatterboxes, Geminis love to talk. If you don't listen, talk, or if you interrupt often, the Gemini might think you are not interested or don't care. Don't stress yourself out too much about finding something to talk about, however.
Ask these questions for a fun yet meaningful conversation with your Gemini friend: Tell me about a book that influenced you. What is the farthest place you've ever been from home? Tell me about an art piece or photograph that you love!
Gemini: Gamophobia or fear of commitment
It's hard for you to stick to one thing, you're probably already bored reading this. Sometimes your curiosity gets the best of you, which is why it's so difficult for you to commit.
Geminis hate being bored. They need activity, stimulation, movement, and people around them, Joon says. Stagnancy is also a big fear for them.
Gemini. Your biggest turn-on includes experimenting different sexual positions and role-play.
Gemini: Share their load
Geminis might be busybodies but this sign can bite off more than they can chew, especially in terms of emotional and physical endeavours. A friend or partner who can unburden these worriers by doing some of the work they are dreading is something this overactive sign could use.
He will make lots of flirty and playful comments to show you he's interested. Also, he may take an interest in some of your hobbies to have a reason to spend even more time together! Even if you just meet him for the first time and he starts flirting a lot, you can tell he's interested.
A Gemini wants someone who appreciates his remarkable mind.
When he talks to you, make eye contact, nod along, and ask him questions. It'll mean the world to him if you're actively engaged in what he has to say. Try asking follow-up questions to show that you care.
And once a Gemini likes you, you never have to worry about talking too much or double-texting—they love hearing everything you have to share! Geminis are ruled by Mercury, the planet of communication and the mind—which is why these air signs are chatty and often stuck in their heads.
Of all the signs in the zodiac, Gemini is the best conversationalist by far. Because this sign is ruled by Mercury, the planet associated with communication, they don't just want to talk — they want to go deep, since this sign connects best with others verbally.
"Geminis need constant stimulation," explains Montúfar. So their eyes will instantly light up when they spot someone new who seems fun and cool to talk to. Sounds simple, but Geminis want to feel like they're a part of something and the best way to do that is by talking.
Geminis are known for their gift of gab and love nothing more than dizzying their opponent in a war of words. When angry, Geminis need to vent, sometimes talking themselves (and the person they're angry at) in circles trying to get their point across.
Geminis shut people out when they're hurt.
This is how he copes, bottling up his feelings until he can't close the lid anymore. With Mercury ruling his nature, a Gemini man prefers to be unemotional and avoid confronting his difficult feelings—but he'll talk when he's ready!
Geminis get over heartbreak easily because they process their emotions instead of denying them. They put their heartbreak into perspective and move on. Geminis don't enjoy being alone, so they'll probably find a replacement for their ex.
Communication is the key to Gemini's heart (or at least to their bedroom)—you literally cannot talk too much to a Gemini—and a punchy dose of bold, ballsy flirting is just the sort of thing to lubricate the mood.
Gemini believes they require attention since they are conscious of their own worthiness. They are typically the attention seeking zodiac signs wherever they go because they always appear to be in good condition and fairly attractive.
Playful and intellectually curious, Gemini is constantly juggling a variety of passions, hobbies, careers, and friend groups. They are the social butterflies of the zodiac: These quick-witted twins can talk to anyone about anything. Find them buzzing between happy hours, dinner parties, and dance floors.
However, their weaknesses are that they're indecisive, impulsive, unreliable, and nosy—be careful telling a Gemini your deepest darkest secrets.
Basically, Geminis are quite friendly, but their enemies are another Gemini and Capricorn. Geminis tend to consider them as always right on every perspective. And this makes a Gemini a big enemy of another Gemini as they both fight to put their own verdict forward.
Leo: Gemini and Leo are the kind of BFFs who are also secretly frenemies. Both love attention, and when they're not competing with each other, they're completing each other's sentences. What keeps them together for the long haul is that neither is ever going to sugarcoat a situation.