What not to say to an autistic person?

5 things to NEVER say to someone with Autism:
  • “Don't worry, everyone's a little Autistic.” No. ...
  • “You must be like Rainman or something.” Here we go again… not everyone on the spectrum is a genius. ...
  • “Do you take medication for that?” This breaks my heart every time I hear it. ...
  • “I have social issues too. ...
  • “You seem so normal!

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What irritates autistic people?

Many autistic people experience hypersensitivity to bright lights or certain light wavelengths (e.g., LED or fluorescent lights). Certain sounds, smells, textures and tastes can also be overwhelming. This can result in sensory avoidance – trying to get away from stimuli that most people can easily tune out.

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How not to talk to an autistic person?

Avoid using irony, sarcasm, figurative language, rhetorical questions, idioms or exaggeration as autistic people can take these literally. If you do use these, explain what you have said and be clear about what you really mean to say.

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What happens when an autistic person is upset?

The rumbling stage or the anger build-up stage includes repetitive behaviors such as rocking and pacing, covering ears with hands, suddenly becoming very tense, and threatening others. The rage stage will occur if anger is not internalized in the rumbling phase and may turn into aggression.

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How do you make an autistic person happy?

Support your friend if they ask for help. Be sensitive to what they want and need, not just how you think they should improve or behave. Try not to talk over or about them when others are around. Help them work on social skills by trying to engage them in conversations with yourself and others.

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Things Not To Say To An Autistic Person

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How do autistic people show they love you?

They may show love, for example, through a practical act, and tidy up for you, or iron your shirt, rather than through a more neurotypical way of looking at you and telling you or using physical affection.

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Do autistic people want to be loved?

Many people with autism crave intimacy and love. But, they don't know how to achieve it in a romantic relationship. They can feel blind to everyday subtle social cues from their partner. This can cause conflict and hurt feelings.

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Do autistic people get angry easily?

Adults diagnosed with autism spectrum disorder (ASD), including Asperger's and autism, are prone to anger outbursts. An 'on-off' quality during which individuals may be calm one second and then have an autism outburst in the next is common.

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What makes autistic people angry?

Some autistic people can experience difficulties making themselves understood, understanding what's being said to them, and understanding facial expressions and body language. This can cause considerable frustration and anxiety which may result in anger or distressed behaviour.

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How do you calm an autistic angry person?

Strategies to consider include distraction, diversion, helping the person use calming strategies such as fiddle toys or listening to music, removing any potential triggers, and staying calm yourself.

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What not to do around autistic people?

What not to do with an autistic child
  • Let them think that autism is bad.
  • Try to “cure” them.
  • Blame every problem on their autism.
  • Punish them for stimming or meltdowns.
  • Pretend they can't hear you talking about them.

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What do adults with autism struggle with?

difficulties with high-level language skills such as verbal reasoning, problem solving, making inferences and predictions. problems with understanding another person's point of view. difficulties initiating social interactions and maintaining an interaction.

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Why is it hard for people with autism to make friends?

Often individuals with autism struggle to make friends because they're fearful of being vulnerable, experiencing social anxiety, and struggle with the social skills necessary to make new friends.

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What are autistic people scared of?

Although your son's reaction sounds more severe than most, many people with autism struggle with a range of fears, phobias and worries. These can range from a debilitating fear of, say, spiders or the dark to chronic anxiety about making mistakes or being late.

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What do autistic people not like?

OVER-SENSITIVE
  • touch can be painful and uncomfortable - people may not like to be touched and this can affect their relationships with others.
  • dislikes having anything on hands or feet.
  • difficulties brushing and washing hair because head is sensitive.
  • may find many food textures uncomfortable.

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What is the hardest part of being autistic?

Common Challenges
  • hyper-vigilance, or seeming “shell shocked”
  • phobias.
  • avoidance behaviours.
  • rigid routines and resistance to change.
  • stimming and/or self-injurious behaviour.
  • controlling behaviours – oppositional defiance.
  • meltdowns.
  • shut down.

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How do autistic people think?

Non-autistic people tend to assess concepts before details, also known as top-down thinking. Autistic people take the opposite approach with bottom-up thinking and use details to build concepts. It may take longer to filter out sensory details with this approach, but you're less likely to miss important information.

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What is the best mood stabilizer for autism?

Lithium is another option for children and adolescents with ASD who present with symptoms of a mood disorder, such as elevated moods/euphoria, mania, and paranoia, whether accompanied or not by irritability.

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Do autistic symptoms worsen with age?

Autism doesn't get worse with age, but certain symptoms can become more pronounced and problematic as the child grows older and is more challenged.

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Do autistic people need to be in control?

When there is a compromise in the executive functioning of the brain, as is the case for people with autism and other conditions, it can result in impulse control issues. Because of the disruption that impulsive behaviors can cause, treating impulsivity in autism is often a major priority.

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Are autistic people aggressive?

Aggression, such as hitting, biting, scratching, hair-pulling, or kicking another person, is relatively common in children on the autism spectrum. A study of children and teenagers with autism found that 68 percent had been aggressive to a caregiver, and 49 percent had been aggressive to someone else, at some point.

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Do autistic people get stressed easily?

Research suggests autistic people are more prone to experiencing anxiety and estimates that up to half of all autistic people experience high levels of anxiety on a regular basis. If you or someone you know is struggling with high levels of anxiety, there is support and help available.

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Are autistic people loyal?

For instance, autistic people tend to be particularly honest, reliable, and loyal — some of the most important traits for a long-term relationship. You may just need to be more direct when communicating than you are used to and be prepared to give your partner space when they feel overstimulated.

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Do autistic people love hard?

Widespread stereotypes suggest that people with autism are incapable of feeling romantic love. In reality, people with autism can experience romantic love and often attach considerable value to their close relationships.

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Do autistic people lack feelings?

It's true that many people with autism don't show emotion in ways that people without the condition would recognize. But the notion that people with autism generally lack empathy and cannot recognize feelings is wrong.

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