Though the sign is often conflated with transformation, Scorpios are actually obsessed with keeping up a steady, reliable routine. Scorpios want nothing more than to be a devoted, loyal partner and once they're settled, it takes a lot for them to change their ways.
Scorpios have a deep and mysterious personality. They don't reveal their true intentions or feelings to most people and like to stay lowkey. The colour that is most likely to be their favourite has to be blue.
Scorpios are water signs; they are profound and steady. These people typically search for interests which assist them with developing their business or different pursuits. Stargazing, playing games, crystal gazing, music, gathering gems, yoga, and meditation are some of the interests for Scorpios to consider.
Many people are afraid of showing their true selves to others, but none so much as the Scorpio. “Scorpio fears being exposed completely, for inside every Scorpio is a certain darkness that overwhelms even them,” Perrakis says.
Negatives of Scorpio Zodiac Sign
A Scorpio's need for control can oftentimes mean that they seem intolerant, jealous and manipulative. Their possessive nature is oftentimes unwarranted.
They hate hearing a no and often pretend they have not heard it. This aspect, unfortunately, makes many a Scorpios obsess with relationships that are toxic. Their pride does not let them graciously back out or let go. Unless, they are the one's breaking a relationship – it's fine but it better not be them hearing a no!
They appreciate it when people are straight up with them and do not shy away from the tough discussions. Open and honest conversations are ideal for Scorpios. They are happiest when they can fully trust those around them to always tell the truth.
Scorpios fall fast when they're interested in someone, even if they may not let on just how obsessed they are. The person they're dating is likely always at the top of their Instagram searches, and Scorpio may go out of their way to conveniently show up at events where their love interest may be.
Scorpios don't require a high amount of attention to be happy in a relationship. However, they get a little obsessive and possessive if they feel like their efforts aren't reciprocated. They're vulnerable but they'd rather disappear without a trace than publicly admit that.
Scorpio (October 23–November 21)
The latter, Farber suggests, would satisfy a Scorpio's hunger for a lush chocolate pudding dessert. “Their list of favorite foods will usually include some sensuous foods known to arouse passions, such as oysters and chocolate,” he says.
Being ghosted, benched, or put on ice without a reason or care for their feelings scares Scorpio. Even though they often leave people on read, they can't deal when it's done to them.
Now, their trap is set for sex. Though fierce, Scorpio is hypersensitive and does not forget wounds easily or quickly. The best way to earn his or her trust in the dating game is to operate with complete integrity and honesty. A word of advice: Making this sign jealous will doom you.
What signs are compatible with a Scorpio? Water signs like Cancer and Pisces and Earth signs like Taurus and Capricorn are the most compatible with a Scorpio.
Scorpios are attracted to people who they can trust and who reveal their true selves. Show them that you are trustworthy and solid. Be honest with them, and they will return that honesty with you. Don't mask your emotions around a Scorpio, especially about important topics.
A Scorpio man might express his love by asking to spend a lot of time (truly a lot) with just you. He'll skip the group dates and opt for quality time talking late into the night with his favorite person—you. If a Scorpio's intensity ever gets too much, let him know.
Give him some space.
Scorpios are usually pretty independent, and he might not appreciate it if you get clingy or overbearing. Instead, take advantage of the nights he wants to spend alone by going out and doing your own thing. There's a good chance that he'll realize that he misses you while you're out on your own.
Their ruthlessness is often accompanied by the urge to take revenge. A Scorpio will never let you get away with something. They will take revenge and will go to any extreme for it. So if you angered one, try and make-up before it is too late!
Generally, the most compatible signs for Scorpio friendships and romantic relationships are fellow water signs (Cancer, other Scorpios, and Pisces), as they speak the same emotional language, and earth signs (Virgo, Taurus, Capricorn), who they appreciate for their stability and groundedness.
Scorpio (October 23–November 21)
Many think that Scorpio's opposite, Taurus, would be a bad match, but it's Libras that drive Scorpios crazy for being noncommittal, indecisive, and flirtatious. Scorpios can flirt (in a mysterious kind of way) but can't tolerate their partners doing the same.
Mars is what we're willing to fight for! Being ruled by Mars makes Scorpios determined, energetic and occasionally cutthroat in pursuit of their goals. Whether seducing a lover or winning an argument, Mars gets what it wants.
As a fixed water sign, Scorpios are known for their loyalty and devotion — and also their passion. In fact, they are known to have such intense personalities that they are often confused with vibrant fire signs.