While you're kissing, try to go for a gentle open-lip kiss. This just means opening your lips a bit and maybe kissing his lower lip with both of your lips. Don't make it last too long — about 5 seconds — and be prepared to pull away soon. During the kiss, put your hands around his back and lean towards him.
Enjoy the moment slowly, without worrying about next steps.
More often than not, the two of you will naturally find something to talk about, do, or just keep on kissing -- so let the moment just happen. In general, the best advice is just to go slow. Don't rush into anything.
Kiss someone when you feel ready, regardless of how old you are. Around ages 12-15, people often start having their first kiss. Don't feel pressured by other people your age kissing people, and don't rush into kissing someone if you are apprehensive.
It is perfectly ok for 12-year-olds to make out! At that age, kids are starting to get curious about what they like and what they want in another person, and this is an important part of it.
Article Summary Co-authored by Eddy Baller Last Updated: May 10, 2023 References Approved If you are 12-15 years old and are very anxious about kissing another teen, that's okay! These feels are totally normal, and there's no pressure to have your first kiss. Kiss someone when you feel ready and you like the person.
For many of us, our first kiss feels like a defining moment in our lives – the moment when we change from a child to a young adult. The anticipation of having our first kiss can make us feel like a bag of excitement, anxiety, curiosity and self-doubt, all jostling around in our tummies like butterflies.
Describe your Feelings in a Sensual Way
One guy confessed, “It feel so sexy when a girl talks about my lips after a kiss”. Guys go crazy when a girl can express her feelings in a sexy manner. “Your lips were so warm, I felt like I was going to melt when I was kissing you.”
There is no moral imperative to disclose that it's your first smooch; that's 100% your business and nobody has a right to demand personal details. But that doesn't mean it's a bad idea to be honest.
First, keep your lips soft and slightly opened, in a gently inviting and receptive way. Don't press them together tightly, but also avoid opening them too wide. Drooling and too much saliva is almost always a turn-off for men and women. On the other hand, some women and men like steamy, sloppy, wet kissing.
Start slow, be gentle, and stay in the moment. Think of French kissing as massaging your partner's tongue. Whatever you do with your hands, be comfortable. If the kisses aren't doing it for you, don't be shy about giving your partner feedback — and asking for feedback yourself.
A long kiss releases dopamine, oxytocin, and serotonin, feel-good chemicals that will make him smile. A single smile produces endorphins, another hormone that lifts his mood. Endorphins also create a “feedback loop” that will make him smile over and over.
You experience an adrenaline rush: When you kiss someone for the first time, your body will release a burst of adrenaline (the fight-or-flight chemical) which increases your heart rate, boosts your energy levels and gets the blood flowing.
Your lips are 100 times more sensitive than your fingertips. Your lips have more than a million different nerve endings, making them one of the most sensitive parts of your body (and 100 times more sensitive than your fingertips). They're even more sensitive because there's no defensive membrane to protect them.
Electric impulses bounce between the brain, lips, tongue and skin, which can lead to the feeling of being on a natural “high” because of a potent cocktail of chemical messengers involved. A passionate kiss acts like a drug, causing us to crave the other person thanks to a neurotransmitter called dopamine.
*Show him the way. Initiate by teasing him with intimate kissing techniques when he least expects, since once his mouth starts moving too much, it's going to be tricky to tame him. Instead, sensuously nibble or gently suck on his lip, and give him a tender surface lip kiss.
Of course! I don't think there is anything wrong with kissing with tongue at any age? You're never too old or young for that. I'm 15, I had my first tongue kiss just this year.
Initiating the First Kiss
Take a step forward and lean in. If you know you have consented to kiss them but haven't yet tried, you can simply and boldly go in for the kiss. If you feel resistance from them (them backing away or body tightening) stop what you're doing and try later when the timing feels right.
It is not unusual for people to have their first kiss at age 11, but it is ultimately up to the individual and their parents to decide if they are ready.
If you give someone a peck, you're leaning in for a simple, light kiss. It might not be incredibly passionate, but don't worry, it's still a super intimate gesture. More often than not, your first kiss with someone new is likely to be a peck — it signals attraction and romantic interest, without being too overwhelming.