1. What kind of girl does a shy guy like? A shy guy may like a confident girl who gives him the space to be himself without fearing being judged. He would appreciate it if the girl understood his true personality and supported him with her love.
A shy guy will volunteer to do things for you just to be around you. If he's jumping at every opportunity to help you out, he's super into you. But even if he hasn't volunteered, a shy guy with a crush will jump at the opportunity to make you happy if you ask him, especially if it means they get to hang out around you.
Believe it or not, guys get shy around girls, too. It's not just us who feel like we don't know what to do around them. Guys get all quiet and uncomfy around us, too.
Sometimes, especially if they're very shy. However, it's not a universal indicator. Sometimes shy guys will also avoid people they dislike. If he likes you, he'll probably keep looking at you whenever he's around you (e.g. in class), but he'll always look away when you catch him.
If a guy's into you, you'll make him nervous. He'll get goose bumps or a rapidly beating heart just from being around you. Look for signs like unexplained laughter, sweaty palms and fidgeting. Guys always want to be in control of their emotions—we like to be in charge.
Some girls may like shy guys, while others may not, just as some women may prefer outgoing men to those who are more reserved. Moreover, some women may like certain shy men and dislike others, choosing to focus on a person as a whole rather than a small sliver of someone's personality.
If you notice he is making more eye contact with you or you catch a guy staring at you, he is probably attracted to you. He may be enthralled by your good looks and may be fantasizing about kissing you. Perhaps he stares at you and smiles; that could mean he likes you, too.
Guys flirt with girls they like. He might ask you for your number, then call you the next day. He may act playful, wink, and flash a smile at you. If most of your conversations feel flirty, then odds are that he likes you as more than just a friend.
When a guy likes you but is hiding it, he'll find reasons and excuses to talk to you. That way, he can use these instances as opportunities to get to know you better, but they're under the guise of him trying to get other information about a different topic.
Break the touch barrier first so he doesn't have to.
If he just told you a sweet story, grab his hand briefly. The more you can touch him, the better he'll feel about making a move on you. You could also try giving him a hug or rubbing his back.
If he acts like he was struck by lightening, blushes and quickly moves away, he is definitely interested. These signals merely indicate how much your touch really means. A guy may really want to have a conversation or maybe even ask you out.
Instead get out in front of your nervousness by addressing it in conversation. Say something like, “I'm always so nervous when I meet new people!” If you want to compliment her you could say, “I can't help but be a bit nervous when I'm talking to such a pretty girl.”
Most guys don't know the difference between when a girl is shy around you vs. when she simply does not want to be near you. Things like face touching, playing with her hair, looking down, and fumbling with her hands are all signs that she's nervous.
Would a guy blush if he didn't like you? Maybe. The reality is that a man could blush around a woman if he is the self-conscious type in general. It may just be that he cares about what people think of him.
