They Want Space. You might notice yourself assuming the worst when someone ignores you. However, this behavior could be a sign that someone is craving time alone or doesn't want to be pressured into discussing something they're not ready to address yet.
To start the conversation, ask him what's wrong and listen while he talks. Really try to understand why he was ignoring you and what the problem was that made him stop communicating. Try saying something like, “I could tell you were upset when you stopped replying to my texts. Are you okay?”
Be honest about how his behavior towards you is making you feel. Let him know that being taken for granted, ignored for long periods, or rejected made you feel bad. Research shows that healthy communication is necessary for the survival of any relationship, especially when it comes to tough subjects.
He might be unhappy or irritated about something, or he could be attempting to avoid you. It also holds to reason that he might have lost interest in the relationship and is gradually trying to pull away. The first step to take when someone ignores you isn't to rush to conclusions.
Don't make yourself easily available
As I previously mentioned, the best way to ignore him and make him want you is to be busy. Whether you're in the beginning days of dating or you've been together for a while, don't be free every time he asks to meet up or calls you.
Don't ignore him
Yes, he ignored you, which is hurtful enough. But don't return the favor if you still hope to build something out of the relationship. Playing mind games or ignoring his texts could backfire and ruin your chance of coming together.
One clear power move that a man will do to you when he's trying to test your patience? He'll ignore you for days at a time, not giving you any updates on where he is, what he's been up to, or whether or not he's even still alive.
When a guy acts interested, then backs off, the reason has less likely to do with you and more to do with him. His past experiences could be coming in the way of your romantic dreams. Maybe, he has been abused, cheated on, or deeply hurt by a partner before, and thus, has his guards high up.
Instead, it might annoy him, or he could interpret it as a sign of emotional immaturity or insecurity. If you want to know why he's been ignoring you, sending one polite but direct message and moving on if you don't get a response—or don't get the response you want—is usually best.
Give it a few days (or even a week).
Waiting 2–3 days or up to a week before reaching out gives him a chance to text you first once he realizes what he's missing. If you've waited more than a week and still haven't heard back from him, it might be time to move on.
If it has been less than a couple of days then try to not let his lack of contact bother you. There is a good chance he is busy and this is nothing to worry about. Get home from work, put your phone on aeroplane mode and avoid checking your WhatsApp status or social media activity. You have your own life to live.
The person using the silent treatment may abruptly leave the house and stay out, or completely ignore the other partner the rest of the night, knowing this would be upsetting. In some cases, the use of the silent treatment may last for days or weeks.
Stay calm and avoid jumping to conclusions, even if you're upset that he's pulling away. Ask him what's going on respectfully and with an open mind. Give him space. One of the best things you can do for your relationship is to give your guy room to miss you and let him have space if he wants it.
Confront the individual who is ignoring you. Ask them to talk privately. In a quiet, private place, calmly ask “Hey, I was wondering why you've been ignoring me?” Present evidence that they've been ignoring you, such as not returning your calls or emails, or not responding when you speak to them.
Give them some time to figure out how they feel and if they want to get in touch with you. A single message or call is fine, but don't send a bunch of texts like, “Why are you ignoring me?” “What did I do wrong?” or “Please talk to me!” These messages may annoy the person rather than get them to open up.
Fear of Rejection
This fear can hold a guy back from interacting with a woman until he sees clear and visible signs that she is interested. Responding to a woman's messages and advances are opportunities for him to see these signs, but he might also worry he's reading into feelings that aren't there.
Ignoring a guy is one of the surefire ways to get his attention, as he would at most times try to win your attention back. However, ignoring alone doesn't put you at the forefront of his thoughts and make you desirable.
Ignoring a guy could make him want you more and it is the oldest trick in the book. It may sound counterintuitive, but it can be an effective way to get his attention and make him take notice of you. But there is a catch it can backfire resulting in him pulling away if you did not do it the right way.