When someone hurts you, don't keep the resentment in your heart. Forgive them. Don't let the resentment control you. It can make you miserable & stuck in your past.
The Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) said to him: “Put your hand on the part of your body that hurts and say: 'Bismillaah' (in the name of Allah) three times, then say seven times: 'I seek refuge in Allah and His Power from the evil of what I find and I fear. '” - Narrated by Muslim (2202).
Allah (swt) repeatedly says in the Quran to show love, kindness and warns that they should not harm their wives even after divorce. Allah (swt) has even forbidden us to call each other by bad names and to humiliate. The abusive behavior does not reflect the kindness and love for their spouses.
Hurting someone's feelings, and breaking their heart, is a huge sin in Islam. Words cause more pain and remain longer than anything physical. Allah hates when people go around playing with people's emotions. If you are somebody who has been broken by a person, forgive them.
Quran says: What comes to you from pain and suffering is all due to your wrong behaviors, and God forgives many mistakes (verse 30 of surah al-Shouri). Indeed, the sufferings and crises, only for the oppressor, are the means of politeness but for believers are a test, degree and dignity [24].
Recognize the value of forgiveness and how it can improve your life. Identify what needs healing and who you want to forgive. Join a support group or see a counselor. Acknowledge your emotions about the harm done to you, recognize how those emotions affect your behavior, and work to release them.
The Prophet said, "No fatigue, nor disease, nor sorrow, nor sadness, nor hurt, nor distress befalls a Muslim, even if it were the prick he receives from a thorn, but that Allah expiates some of his sins for that."
The Prophet Muhammad (pbuh) said: “No person suffers any anxiety or grief and says this supplication, but Allah will take away his sorrow and grief, and give him in their stead joy.
If your guy does something that hurts you, tell him. Little confrontations along the way make for a much healthier relationship based on good communication. We all hurt each other, but we must learn to express our emotions before we get hit the boiling point.
Stay away from people who try to hurt your feelings.
Instead, distance yourself from people who are mean. Keep in mind that people are often mean because they feel bad about themselves. Don't let what they say get to you. Walk away and spend time with someone who cares about you.
Sadists and psychopaths. Someone who gets pleasure from hurting or humiliating others is a sadist. Sadists feel other people's pain more than is normal. And they enjoy it.
Ask forgiveness from others and forgive those you have ill-feelings for asap. You can make a general email or a text for all your friends/family/colleagues saying eg : “ Dear brother/sister, please forgive me if I ever said anything which made you upset or hurt you, I love you for the sake of Allah.
Constant Lying
This can tie into cheating, but also just lying in general. If your partner keeps lying to you, he or she can't be trusted, and it's a level of disrespect and shadiness that might not be forgiven in a relationship, says Ziegler.
It's okay to hurt and it's okay to tell someone they hurt you. You want to honor your feelings knowing it's natural and normal to feel hurt and angry too! Remember to respect yourself!
- “The bravest heart is the one that stays close to Allah, even, when it's in pain.”♥️ | Facebook.
The Messenger of Allah s.a.w. said, "Place your hand where you feel pain and say: 'Bismillah (In the Name of Allah)' three times; and then repeat seven times: 'A'udhu bi'izzatillahi wa qudratihi min sharri ma ajidu wa 'uhadhiru (I seek refuge with Allah and with His Power from the evil that afflicts me and that which I ...
If you have pain in your body, you can say these du'as: “A'udhu Billahi wa qudratihi min sharri ma ajidu wa uhadhir.” “Adhhib al-bas Rabb an-nas, wa'shfi anta al-Shafi, la shifa a illa shifauka shifa-an la yughadiru saqaman.”