Why do dogs become attention-seekers? One of the most common reasons is that they are bored. This could be because they are not getting enough exercise, enough mental stimulation, or they are genuinely not getting enough attention from their owners.
Whenever your dog does something annoying to get your attention, ignore him. If this causes him to back off, praise and pet him. If he doesn't back off, stand up, turn your back, or walk away. Whatever you do, don't push your dog away; he will interpret that as play.
If your dog is engaging in an undesirable behavior to get your attention, the best thing to do is ignore him.
Separation Anxiety Can Cause Your Dog to Not Leave Your Side
Some dogs even try to prevent you from leaving. Dogs with separation anxiety will sometimes start barking, pacing or exhibiting other distressing behaviors after a short time after being left alone.
Dogs are clingy for three basic reasons. Your dog may have great anxiety about being left alone. Various illnesses may cause the dog to seek comfort from your companionship. And a female dog about to be in heat may tend to stick closer to her owner.
If your dog is feeling vulnerable, he may stay close to you for an added sense of security. Clinginess is especially common in senior dogs, especially when losing vision or hearing. As your dog's world becomes less familiar, he'll stay close to you as a source of comfort and familiarity.
“Too much affection can also mean that you can give your dog positive cues at the wrong time to back up bad behaviors, which can lead to behavioral problems like separation anxiety, vocalizing for attention, and/or damaging items in the home to get attention,” Dr. Nelson explains.
When You Shouldn't Ignore Your Dog's Bad Behavior. There are some behaviors you don't want to ignore, such as puppy nipping or pulling on leash. Any behavior that feels good to your dog, is naturally calming (such as licking or chewing), or is fun to do is not likely to go away when ignored.
A quick way to short circuit the behavior is to ignore your dog when he jumps up at you for attention, and then acknowledge him when he's doing anything other than jumping, like standing near you, or better yet, sitting. You can use a tether to help keep your dog from jumping up on guests.
Play Hard to Get
When you are trying to get your dog to be a little less bossy, forcing kisses and cuddles on him might have him reverting to even more dominant behaviors. The best way to entice a dominant dog to a relationship filled with physical affection is to ignore him and let him come to you when he feels ready.
While it's important for our dogs to learn how to be independent and content spending time alone, attention is important. Not enough attention can lead to behavioral problems, which can be really frustrating for you and your dog.
If your dog follows you everywhere then it's a sign that they trust and love you and that you make them feel safe. Following you very closely can be a sign that they're bored, they want something, they're feeling scared or are just being nosy.
Punishment should not be used to correct undesirable behavior. Some pets may see it as a form of reinforcement, while others will become increasingly more fearful or aggressive. Punishment focuses on stopping the undesirable but does not teach what is desirable.
Positive punishment techniques are known to be associated with increased aggression from dogs6,12. Although correctly applied negative reinforcement can effectively change an animal's behaviour, increased stress can result from the use of negative reinforcement training.
How much time does a dog need? On average, you can expect to spend at a minimum, 1 - 2 hours each day on providing dedicated attention for your dog. This can be in the form of a walk, play, enrichment activities, training or general cuddle time. Dogs are pack animals so most of them love attention and company.
Signs your dog imprinted on you.
They follow you around closely. They mirror your behaviors. They follow your commands more readily than they do other people's. They check in with you frequently when in new environments or situations.
Your dog is stressed out.
Life changes can be difficult for dogs to deal with. So if your pet is suddenly stuck next to you like glue, it might be a sign that they're stressed. “Pets can be sensitive to changes like moving to a new house, a new roommate or partner, or even changes in work hours,” says Dr. Woodley.
Whining is one of many forms of canine vocal communication. Dogs most commonly whine when they're seeking attention, when they're excited, when they're anxious or when they're trying to appease you.
You can train your dog to go to their bed or crate when they're getting underfoot. If you ignore excessively clingy behaviors, such as your dog whining or pawing at you for attention, eventually, they will stop.
Velcro Dog syndrome is a phrase people use to describe the behaviour displayed by clingy breeds. It is not, however, full-blown separation anxiety and as a responsible pet owner, it's a good idea to make sure you know the difference. So-called Velcro dogs will often: Follow you from room to room around the house.