Going the fitness route is one of the best ways to meet sober dates because people are most likely to look out for their health and wellbeing. Gyms are much better for meeting the opposite sex because the sessions are normally less structured than a fitness class so there is more time to socialize.
For all this, it is not impossible for a drinker and a sober person to date; like any relationship, however, it requires work, patience, communication, and understanding. Ironically, the sober partner may have an advantage.
What about sober people looking for romance? Don't worry; there's an app for that, too! Aptly called “Sober,” this social app has a swiping function like Tinder (swipe right for yes, left for no thanks) and is specifically geared towards the sober community.
A 2020 study from the University of Michigan shows that over the last two decades, the number of college students who abstained from drinking went up by 8%. And according to a 2022 U.K. study from Drinkaware on alcohol consumption trends, Gen Z is the most sober and sober-curious generation yet.
However, many experts, as well as 12-step guidelines, recommend not dating for at least one year after becoming sober. The philosophy of this recommendation is understandable. In early recovery, we should focus on ourselves, learn how to cope with stress, and try to minimize emotional triggers.
"This way of living is inspiring the 'sober curious movement' and the latest trend of 'sober dating', which is about thinking more consciously about consuming alcohol and our drinking habits." According to their research, 60 per cent of people post-pandemic reduced their intake to improve their health and well being.
Recovery doesn't disqualify you from going to a party, game or concert, if those are activities you enjoy. However, it's important to create a new definition of what's fun for you when substance use isn't involved. “People need to remember that we can still have fun even though we're sober,” Campbell said.
While it's definitely helpful to have friends who don't drink, you probably have friends and family who drink in moderation and support your sobriety. It's possible to maintain a healthy social life without drinking.
This video was created to illustrate the social issues revolving around dating apps like Tinder. The idea was to have one female, using the power of her dating app, create a mob of hundreds of guys all showing up expecting a date with her.
Start by making yourself as impressive as you can with a nice outfit and practicing what you'll say. When you meet the girl, introduce yourself with confidence. Confidence always makes a good first impression. Then, get the conversation going by asking her about herself.
Attend social events, such as parties, cultural events, or classes. Join a club or group that interests you, such as a sports team, hiking group, or book club. Take advantage of networking opportunities, such as business events or conferences. Meet new people through mutual friends or acquaintances.
Hold hands, give a back rub, kiss more. Allow yourself to feel how good those things make you feel. And without alcohol – you really get to feel them. Keep doing that until you get to a point where you're no longer thinking you need alcohol to feel good being physically intimate.
