A 2015 study by the American Sociological Association revealed that women initiate 69 percent of all divorces in the U.S. Further, the same study found that college-educated women initiate divorce at an even higher rate of 90 percent. But why are women initiating divorces at such a high rate compared to men?
Women get divorced at a significantly higher rate compared to men. In particular, they get divorced at a rate of 7.7 per 1,000 citizens in the United States, according to the CDC.gov report. At the same time, the current national divorce rate is 2.3 per 1,000 people.
44. 60 percent of couples married between the age of 20 -25 will end in divorce. 45. Those who wait to marry until they are over 25 years old are 24 percent less likely to get divorced.
It is no surprise, then, that marital infidelity is a leading cause of divorce. Just how common is marital infidelity? According to a study from the American Association for Marriage and Family Therapy, as many as 25 percent of married men and 15 percent of married women have had extramarital affairs.
John Gottman of the University of Washington, a foremost expert on couple studies, concluded after over 20 years of research that the single, best predictor of divorce is when one or both partners show contempt in the relationship.
A study led by the American Sociological Association determined that nearly 70% of divorces are initiated by women. And the percentage of college-educated American women who initiated divorce is even higher.
But if you're in an unhealthy relationship, divorce can mean a fresh start. According to a 2013 study conducted by researchers at London's Kingston University, the majority of women were significantly happier than they'd ever been after divorce. The study surveyed 10,000 men and women over the course of two decades.
Statistics reveal that up to 33% of all Australian marriages are expected to end in divorce [1], and countless more relationships fall by the way side.
Statistically speaking, men have a tougher time with anxiety, depression, and insomnia, and experience greater fluctuations in weight following divorce. Some surmise that women typically play a greater role in championing healthy living and communication during marriage, leaving men at a loss when they're alone.
In a study done by Pennsylvania State University, the top reasons men listed for divorce was incompatibility, infidelity, lack of communication and personality problems.
Gender Gap in Remarriage
Among those eligible to remarry—adults whose first marriage ended in divorce or widowhood—men are much more likely than women to have taken the plunge again.
Marriage Rates in Australia
Millennials (69%) are more likely to be married or partnered, and baby boomers are statistically more likely to be divorced (15%).
However, Queensland has the highest crude divorce rate in the nation — a long-standing title, with the gap widening further. There were 2.6 divorces granted per 1,000 people in Queensland. That's followed by WA at 2.2 (the national average), and 2.1 in NSW and SA.
While many couples see remarriage as a second chance at happiness, the statistics tell a different story. According to available Census data, the divorce rate for second marriages in the United States is over 60% compared to around 50% for first marriages.
Men are often happier in their marriages than women, men enjoy greater financial wellbeing and health from marriage than do women, and divorce is associated with worse physical and mental health for men.
The study found that on average unhappily married adults who divorced were no happier than unhappily married adults who stayed married when rated on any of 12 separate measures of psychological well-being. Divorce did not typically reduce symptoms of depression, raise self-esteem, or increase a sense of mastery.
Self-Centeredness. If someone is always focused on themselves and doesn't show empathy towards their partner, minimizes their partner's feelings, or crosses boundaries, psychotherapist Laura Dabney, M.D., tells Bustle, that will likely increase their risk of getting a divorce.
According to a recent survey of 191 CDFA professionals from across North America, the three leading causes of divorce are "basic incompatibility" (43%), "infidelity" (28%), and "money issues" (22%).
It can be unilaterally initiated by either spouse, or mutually decided. To prove that your marriage has 'irretrievably broken down,' in order to obtain a divorce, you must have been separated for at least 12 months. It is possible to be 'separated under one roof' if certain criteria are met.
Elementary school age (6–12) This is arguably the toughest age for children to deal with the separation or divorce of their parents.
The majority of men and women in this study mentioned affective dimensions of their marriage relationship - encompassing communication problems, incompatibility, changed lifestyle desires and instances of infidelity - as the main reason for their divorce.
There is only one ground for divorce in Australia – irreconcilable differences evidenced by a period of not less than 12 months' separation. To file an application for divorce you must: be able to prove that the marriage has irretrievably broken down.