It's far more likely that they're either pushing boundaries to see exactly what they can get away with, or that they're seeking a feeling of safety and comfort due to a feeling of insecurity (like if you've introduced a new dog into a household with an established canine presence or even a larger family).
Dog/Human Dominance Aggression
Dogs may display dominance related aggression reactions to the humans in their pack as well. This may take the form of disobedience and the guarding of resources, but it can also include nipping and biting behaviors as well.
Act like the alpha of the back and show him who is boss. Look him/her in the eye: When you give a command, look straight at your pet. Make sure he can see that you mean business and that it is not a command to be disobeyed. Always hold eye contact with your pet, no matter how big or small he or she is.
It is a common myth that aggression between housemate dogs is related to dominance and this misconception is unfortunate and sometimes leads to harsh correction methods. Dogs should not be punished or reprimanded for aggressive displays. Dogs should never be alpha rolled.
In fact, dominance training methods are not scientifically proven to be effective. Aversive methods may also increase the dog's underlying fear and anxiety which can actually make the unwanted behaviour much worse.
But most dogs tend to bond to the person who gives them the most attention. For example, in a family with two parents and two kids, the dog may favor the parent who fills their bowl every morning and takes them for a walk every evening. In addition, physical affection solidifies the bond between dog and person.
The Root of the Behavior
For example, dogs who are “spoiled,” or given too much leeway at home, may begin to exhibit aggressive, dominant behavior, because they've been given the run of your home and don't like being told no!
Some canines may be genetically predisposed to developing dominant dog behavior. Dominance and aggression can be passed down through specific breeds. Some canine breeds have a specific need for a strong alpha as their owner. Otherwise, they will take on the role of alpha dog.
Dogs can be possessive over their owners as well as their toys or food. This makes your dog extra protective of you and keeps your dog on high alert when there's no real threat. Your dog may be showing possessive behavior if they do the following: Growling.
Dominant dog body language
When your dog is feeling confident and dominant, he or she will have a strong, positive body position. There will also be signs of alertness: rigid muscles and tail; raised fur; an attempt to make direct eye contact; and a closed mouth, sometimes accompanied by a soft growl.
A dominant personality involves traits like proactivity, assertiveness, and often, extroversion. Agression and manipulation are also possible. That assertive co-worker pushing you to your limits might be a team asset and goal-oriented, but a dominant personality could be challenging to handle.
Your dog growls at you if you get near his toys or food. This should never be allowed. The fact that your dog is trying to control you – by keeping your away from its possessions – is one of the keys to recognizing that your dog thinks they're alpha. Your dog stares into your eyes and does not turn away.
OK—this one isn't necessarily your fault, but the way you respond to it can make a difference in your dog's behavior. Like humans, dogs go through a rebellious “teenager” phase (around 5 months to 18 months).
A dog's number one priority at bedtime is comfort and security. So, if they're choosing to sleep in the same space as you, it's a big sign that they trust you. "Sleeping with the owner in the same room helps minimize fear, anxiety and stress," said Christman.
Dogs exhibit behaviors like fearfulness, avoidance, and display body language, like avoiding eye contact, lip licking, yawning, or showing teeth if they don't like someone. Some dogs may act aggressively around the people they don't like, although that can sometimes be out of fear.
Following you very closely can be a sign that they're bored, they want something, they're feeling scared or are just being nosy. It is also part of their natural social behaviour, to watch and follow what you are doing to help maintain a good relationship with you.
When done correctly and when combined with proactive training, ignoring unwanted behavior can work. However, the time it takes depends on your dog's reinforcement history and their own personal enjoyment of the behavior. For some dogs, they get through an extinction burst quickly, while others can take quite a while.
When a dog is feeling rejected or unloved, they will try to do everything in their power to make up for it. If they find that nothing is working, there is a good chance that they will become depressed and feel down. When this happens, they will begin to tuck their tail in between their legs.
Stay in the same room as the dog, but don't make sudden movements. Use a quieter and soothing voice as well. Gradually decrease the distance between the two of you as the dog starts to relax.