Gemini feel emotionally stuck and take time to accept the rejection. They take the rejection a bit too harshly which destroys their mental peace.
Gemini cannot stand when someone makes a fool of them or play with their emotions. They have a fear of rejection, so they put a mask on their true feelings. This, in turn, makes them emotionally distant.
You talk about the rejection nonstop, Gemini. You hope that if you say you're better off without them enough times, you'll actually believe it. Your loved ones, however, aren't so easily fooled. They're well aware that you're lying to yourself and are actually devastated on the inside.
A Gemini is a good-hearted person, but they are known for holding grudges. They are strong-willed when it comes to not forgetting what somebody has done to them.
Gemini: Gamophobia or fear of commitment
It's hard for you to stick to one thing, you're probably already bored reading this. Sometimes your curiosity gets the best of you, which is why it's so difficult for you to commit.
Gemini feel emotionally stuck and take time to accept the rejection. They take the rejection a bit too harshly which destroys their mental peace.
As the social butterflies of the zodiac, Gemini recover through storytelling, editing their breakup drama into sad and hilarious tales to share over drinks. While some might label this "kiss and tell" behavior, a Gemini calls it healing.
Gemini cannot stand when someone makes a fool of them or play with their emotions. They have a fear of rejection, so they put a mask on their true feelings. This, in turn, makes them emotionally distant.
Being a versatile personality, Geminis like adventure, change and hate being confined. Thus, they run away from love the moment they feel it is no longer an adventure for them.
To put it simply, Geminis don't like to deal with stress. You probably internalize it, try to squash it and allow its chatter to echo inside of you. That inner chaos inevitably takes its toll, at which point you either shut people out or lash out, depending on how emotionally connected you feel to the stress' source.
Key points. Romantic rejection stimulates parts of the brain associated with motivation, reward, addiction, and cravings. Being romantically rejected can be a familiar feeling that mirrors one's childhood, leading that person to seek out more of the same.
Social rejection increases anger, anxiety, depression, jealousy and sadness. It reduces performance on difficult intellectual tasks, and can also contribute to aggression and poor impulse control, as DeWall explains in a recent review (Current Directions in Psychological Science, 2011).
Give yourself credit for trying.
You took a risk — good for you. Remind yourself that you can handle the rejection. Even though you were turned down now, there will be another opportunity, another time. Get philosophical: Sometimes things happen for reasons we don't always understand.
Geminis are known for their gift of gab and love nothing more than dizzying their opponent in a war of words. When angry, Geminis need to vent, sometimes talking themselves (and the person they're angry at) in circles trying to get their point across. Try: Recording yourself anger spiraling into your voice memo app.
Geminis are (ironically) the most straightforward when it comes to subconsciously pushing people away… it's usually just that they fear the pain of losing a friendship or a partner, and when that fear starts to overshadow them, they push people away. However, this never lasts long.
Scorpio (October 23 - November 21)
This can hurt Gemini who'll feel like their partner doesn't trust them. According to Lang, Gemini's mutable nature and Scorpio's fixed one also makes this a challenging pair. “Gemini tends to want to move past conflicts quickly, while Scorpio can hold on,” she says.
Geminis get over heartbreak easily because they process their emotions instead of denying them. They put their heartbreak into perspective and move on. Geminis don't enjoy being alone, so they'll probably find a replacement for their ex.
Geminis might look stiff from the exterior but their heart is extremely soft and once they are in a relationship, they won't be able to move on since they made connections on a profound level. Even if they try to overcome hurtful feelings by becoming social butterflies, they are unable to do it.
Geminis shut people out when they're hurt.
His talkative and lively personality can suddenly dim after an argument or disagreement. This is how he copes, bottling up his feelings until he can't close the lid anymore.
However, Geminis are notorious for losing interest very quickly. “When they go silent on you, it could indicate that their minds have alit on some other object of desire,” Monahan says.