Geminis shut people out when they're hurt. This is how he copes, bottling up his feelings until he can't close the lid anymore. With Mercury ruling his nature, a Gemini man prefers to be unemotional and avoid confronting his difficult feelings—but he'll talk when he's ready!
Since Geminis aren't shy about socializing and making new friends, it's simple for them to rapidly bounce back after a heartbreak. They prefer to be in the present and avoid letting the lasting effects of a breakup hold them back in life.
A Gemini with a Heartbreak. Since a Gemini native loves to live in the present, they do not let break-ups of a heartbreak bring them down. Being really good communicators, a Gemini always makes his/her thoughts heard, thereby leaving very little scope for miscommunication.
Scorpio (October 23 - November 21)
This can hurt Gemini who'll feel like their partner doesn't trust them. According to Lang, Gemini's mutable nature and Scorpio's fixed one also makes this a challenging pair. “Gemini tends to want to move past conflicts quickly, while Scorpio can hold on,” she says.
Gemini. You're a communicator through and through, and that tracks in how you tend to apologize, too. "Before they say, 'I'm sorry,' Geminis want to talk things out to understand the whole story of what happened, what went wrong, and what recourse there is for their actions," says Lang.
Here are some key signs a Gemini is upset: He's unusually touchy and argumentative. His jokes are darker or ruder than usual. If he feels like you hurt him, he may try to retaliate.
And as for grudges, there's a good chance she's going to want to tell you something later, so she can only hold a grudge against you for less than a minute. Gemini just wants to have fun with her friends and she doesn't believe that grudge actually solves anything.
Geminis have a hard time settling down in one spot. They can pick up a pastime very quickly, but they also have a very short attention span. They are unpredictable and unable to decide on their next course of action since they get bored with one thing very quickly.
Incompatible signs:
Geminis tend to have less in common with water signs (Cancer, Scorpio, and Pisces). While water signs crave emotional connection and comfort, Geminis need movement and stimulation.
Expression is everything to mercurial Gemini, and so their partnerships are fueled by communication. On the flip side, it's easy to tell when they're over a relationship: They simply go dark. Though Gemini are great at ghosting, their disappearing act isn't mean-spirited. They simply hate confrontation.
If he regrets losing you, he'll probably be happy to work on the relationship and patch things up with you. If you don't want to get back with your Gemini guy, that's fine, too. Getting dumped or ghosted can hurt, and it's totally fine if you don't ever want to see him again.
Gemini (May 21 - June 20)
They love indulging in self-pity and will cry their hearts out. They do it mostly for attention and will quiet down and shut you out once they have all your attention.
Stay busy
To make your Gemini ex miss you, keep yourself busy. Because Geminis are such restless people, don't be shocked if your ex contacts you to ask when you two can hang out again. Make sure they understand that you are a complete head honcho and not just someone who achieves the absolute minimum.
Geminis date with their brain, not with their heart, which makes them detached from deep emotional connections. They take life very lightly and don't like to settle for love. If things get unexciting, they easily move on. But if they ever fall in love, they fall deep.
Gemini. A way for the Mercurial Gemini to release stress is to let all of their feelings out. This could mean journaling or speaking out their emotions.
Gemini (May 21 – June 20)
No one likes to be bored, but the monotony of being stuck in a daily routine can really stress out a Gemini. Geminis are curious. They can't wait to get their hands on new experiences and knowledge.
The worst thing for a Gemini is to get stuck in a rut or a monotonous routine. If life slows down, they begin to feel trapped. “Gemini fears silence and stagnation,” explains Perrakis.
Gemini: Gamophobia or fear of commitment
It's hard for you to stick to one thing, you're probably already bored reading this. Sometimes your curiosity gets the best of you, which is why it's so difficult for you to commit. You're fidgety, impulsive, and your mind is always racing with ideas.
Gemini seeks a partner that will continuously push them, provide them with a sense of independence, and be a lot of fun. They will gladly make a life commitment if they believe they are compatible in more than one aspect with their spouse and will honor that pledge.
Gemini. Gemini is a chatty sign in a particularly powerful way. Being extremely discerning and also forthcoming with your words will draw them in. "Unsurprisingly, words of affirmation is the love language of Gemini, for whom conversation is a form of foreplay," says Kavanagh.
Gemini is a pretty loyal zodiac, especially in a long-term relationship. Once a Gemini finds a reliable partner or friend, they become completely devoted and committed.
He goes quiet.
This is how he copes, bottling up his feelings until he can't close the lid anymore. With Mercury ruling his nature, a Gemini man prefers to be unemotional and avoid confronting his difficult feelings—but he'll talk when he's ready!
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They can get really defensive and may also shut down. If you get into an argument with a Gemini, your ears will get a blast because they will continue to argue relentlessly.
If a Gemini believes that believe something will work out for them, there's no way you can change their opinion and vice versa. On the other hand, when the Gemini is not in a stubborn mood, they will listen to you keenly, trying to understand your point of view too.