DEALING WITH HATERS | THE HIDDEN PSYCHOLOGY BEHIND HATERS
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What is best revenge for your haters?
There's an old saying, “revenge is best served cold.” It's a common and normal reaction to want justice for a perceived wrong. When people feel they are mistreated, you want to make them pay.
Annoying people might violate various social norms, be incompatible with others, try too hard to make others laugh, or even take a phone call while in a quiet library. Did you know that you could even be the “irritating person” because you're too positive?
One of the best ways to deal with people who hate you is to find out what's wrong. First, ask them politely why they don't like you; you never know when their response could surprise you. Maybe there was an incident that you had already forgotten about but left a lasting impression on them.
At their core, according to Parks, haters hate due to insecurities, low self-esteem, and deep envy. They see others doing better than them, compare themselves to others, and lash out in myriad forms, including via social media, whisper campaigns, mobbing (forming a group to bully), and even physical violence.
Usually, the haters simply criticize and move on. And that means that you can safely ignore them and continue doing your thing. But that is easier said than done because we all like to be validated. Some people like it more than others, but everyone wants to be respected and appreciated to some degree.
Haters can also be a great way to better appreciate your victories. Accomplishing something after many people told you that you would not be able to is a great feeling. You should be proud of what you are able to achieve throughout your life.
By being nice to others you will be liked and this will annoy your enemy. You can do this by helping someone. Only do this if the person or people you are being nice to respects your kindness. If they have mistreated you before then know the depth of your kindness.
1. A young Julius Caesar was once kidnapped by pirates. After paying off the ransom, Caesar raised an army, captured the pirates and had them crucified. The story goes that 25-year-old Julius Caesar was sailing on the Aegen Sea when he was captured by pirates.
