Dogs don't shake hands like people do, they use their nose to say hello. So, hold your hand in a fist so they can approach and sniff if they choose. Don't thrust your hand at the dog. They can smell you just fine from a distance, and the sudden movement could startle them.
Allow the dog to approach and sniff your hand without reaching your hand out to them. If the dog is comfortable being in your space and showing relaxed body language, you can try to stroke them. Gently reach out with the back of your hand and stroke the dog's shoulders, chest or under their chin, which most dogs enjoy.
Dogs have amazing senses of smell – they can gather information just fine from where you are, so go ahead and keep your hands safely to yourself!
Slow your pace, and use a gentle tone. If you know the dog is shy or fearful, change your body language. Approach toward the side of the dog, not head on, and avoid direct eye contact. When you are close, begin to make your body “smaller.” Lower the shoulder that is closest to the dog.
The sniff test for a dog is his way of shaking hands. Before any petting gets underway, let the dog sniff your hand. Hold your hand out flat to the dog and let him approach you. If he gets a sniff and wants to move forward, go ahead and pet him.
When dogs don't feel able to move away – which they may not when in physical contact with us – they may resort to telling us to back off in less desirable ways. Give dogs a way of “opting in” to social contact by using the “3-second rule” of petting. Pet for no more than three seconds, then stop.
Some good words to start with include "outside," "food," and "play". Both repetition and reinforcement are essential to your dog learning a new word. If you want to teach the word "outside," for example, record the word on a button and place it by the door.
To befriend a dog, allow them to initially accept you
Pup needs to see they can trust you, so let them figure your trustworthiness for themselves. Next, lower your stance to their level and only make calm, slow, and predictable movements. Allow the floofer to make the first move, approaching or sniffing you.
Offer Treats from the Stranger/New Person
To make clear what behavior you're after from your dog, only reward them as they take the treats and slowly move closer to the new person. When your dog can come close to the stranger with positive responses, have the stranger pat your dog carefully. Be patient with your dog.
By having your dog explore every nook and cranny (while supervised), if they do spot something for the first time and get startled, you will be there with them and can reassure them by being calm and positive yourself and also giving them some especially tasty treats.
Dogs have a unique way of saying 'thank you' to their humans from licking, sniffing to cuddling. "Dogs are often called man's best friend for a good reason.
Proctor says people should be aware that not all dogs want to be hugged or kissed. “Most people do not pick up on a dog's subtle body language that shows fear, stress or aggression,” she wrote. “Putting your face into a dog's face and kissing it could lead to a bite on the face if you are not careful.”
When dogs sniff people they are gaining all sorts of information about us. They know if we are familiar or a stranger. They know which scents we have attracted while we've been away.
It is now a well-known fact that, like us humans, even our four-legged friends remember other dogs very well and manage to identify those of their own kind that they have already met, even months later.
When reaching to the pet, do so with a flat hand palm up and reach under the chin or to the side of the neck or shoulder. Reaching over top of a dog's head can be threatening and even the nicest dogs can take offense to a hand on top of their head.
Licking is a natural and instinctive behaviour to dogs. For them it's a way of grooming, bonding, and expressing themselves. Your dog may lick you to say they love you, to get your attention, to help soothe themselves if they're stressed, to show empathy or because you taste good to them!